Don’t you hate it when a guy comes up to your girl and she is instantly taken by his attention?

Yeah? so do many guys.

But how do you deal with these men? Again I’m here with the answers.

First you need to understand that these men if they do grab the attention of your target; all they are doing is saying something different than what you are talking about, they might be interesting but remember you’re more interesting.

OK now, how to deal with them.

Well there are several ways:

If the thief starts trying to flirt with you’re target ask him why he isn’t flirting with you e.g. Thief: ” You know you have pretty eyes ” You:”What do you think about my eyes?”
As soon as he arrives if you know he will try and ruin your game tell him to go away ( in a nice way of course). Thief: “hey what’s up” You : ” Hey man, dude I’ll speak to you later, but im speaking with her now” ( then pat him on the shoulder, it shows your dominance.


Show Her and the Thief that the date is yours, e.g. When he is speaking hold her hand or hold her around the waist etc…
Have a wing-man ready to deal with the thief e.g. The wing-man needs to do most of the talking with him, rather than your target.
Show him that your Alpha by touching him, and if he points you out on this just look at your target like “What is he talking about”
If he asks you to hold his drink, take something or what ever tell him ”I’m sorry dude, but i don’t like to hold, (then point to a random guy and say) but he might ”
If he tries to insult you or make you look stupid, either have a good comeback, or look at your date (with a blank face) and ask her if she wants to go somewhere else
It may seem hard at first to deal with thieves but then it gets easier, so try it.


Yours Sincerely

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Hmm...I see what you're saying but I have a different approach to opposition like this. I typically don't put my arm around her, or even show that this is some sort of a competition. I don't compete for the attention of a woman.

If a guy came over and flat out interrupted me and even went so far as to ask me to hold his drink....I'd laugh in his face and tell him to beat it. If she seemed even interested in talking to this guy, I let her. I won't stand there and have a group conversation with them...I leave and talk to other women. Making her jealous trumps everything, and not getting jealous yourself displays confidence.

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