Ok well I'm trying to get at this hb9 right now and my friend keeps on swaring that she likes me ..
she's kinda weird in a way though.. like
my friend told me on friday when we all went out clubbing as a group, that she was getting next to me and stuff (i didn't really notice- i was a bit drunk) - and apparently leaning her head on me? I don't remember.. but I do remember I did the "magical" claw on her. hahaha, just felt like I had to say that..

and the day after we were all supposed to go "drunk" bowling - but I couldn't go because i had to go out of town for something . Well my friend told me when he got there the girl was asking for me and felt really bummed out that I didn't go-

But I'm getting mixed signals because a few times when I talk to her on facebook chat for example, we talk for maybe 5 mins then she says something like 'have to go, ill talk to you later' then she ends up not talking to me .. I'm not the type of person to go after her a few days later and being 'why didnt you end up talking to me again??' - i just act like it's not a big deal but I still take it into consideration..
but she does end up commenting on my status' and stuff..

I'm not sure how should I approach her to start talking more to her - because last thing we said to each other was her telling me she'll "talk to me later" like 5 days ago.. but i don't want to come off as too "needy" or "wanty" - I just want to talk more to her to build a stronger attraction or more comfortability and shit because we do see each other every other weekend..

advice?
thanks!

i think she has a lot of guys on her mind like every hb 9 would.
as for her ending the conversation, i would have to see the actual conv to see if she was bored or trying to act like she is busy aka get you more obsessed over her.
as for your game, i think you should tread lightly and avoid the usual texts or calls saying "whats up" or "hows your day" instead bring up how you wanted to go drunk bowling with her but you were too busy (insert cool personal activity or what not) and that we should do it some other time. Dont actually plan one with her, then try to neg her thru texts, and u end the conversation before she can do it to you. then wait.... imagine shes a clingy fat girl that you wanna be nice to....

thanks for the input!
I've probably hung out with this girl on the weekends like 10 times in the last 3-4 months or so.. and honestly (which I find really weird) - I've never seen a guy hitting on her or her hitting on a guy - I think she's kinda reserved when it comes to the physical stuff (even though 90% of the time I go out with her in our group, we go to a club or bar -or drinking at someone's house)..

She's not shy though. She's not stuck-up either - but she does get drunk and parties a lot. haha

I kinda noticed something though.. when we go to a club, she does get close to me- I even noticed that we were all dancing in a circle with a group of friends (she was dancing across from me in the circle - kinda far away) and she acted like she had to go do something behind me then came back a minute later and was next to me.. but when she gets next to me she does it sort-of facing away from me .. idk if she does this to hide the 'obviousness' or just try to act hard to get but aiming for the target (me).. I don't know, but she's obviously not being easy..

But over the past few weeks/months I kind of had a feeling that she may like me - cause she'd randomly text me sometimes to talk about nothing (randomness) -but it kind of stopped. but this weekend my best friend told me that he really thinks she likes me (when I wasn't even there) .

I'm not sure how I should treat her or if I should initiate conversation with her again or wait for her to contact me again..

& about the conversation we had thing, I really think she DID leave to make me feel to want her more (obsess over her), because it wasn't even boring at all- it was random as hell when she said she had to go (not gonna lie our conversations are almost never boring- we joke a lot and have similar sense of humor). And when she noticed I didn't talk to her back after like 2-3 days she commented one of my old facebook status' that wasnt even new.. so that would mean she would've gotten on my profile to look back at stuff..

I think she's trying to get me to want her more- but I'm not falling for it and that's what's happening .. what do you think?
need some advice..
thanks!

send her a text saying

You : (nothing)

Her:Why did you send me a blank text

You:You'll make up any excuse to talk to me

etc.....


C & F

anyone have any other ideas on what I should do??
& how I should treat her..

thanks

just treat her nice, but keep negging her
clearly shes playing hard to get or shes really deeply self conscious.
either way, i think you got the upper hand so just take it easy and play with her
dont stress yourself out, remember "live in your own reality"