it is believed that men have a more set "sexual orientation",
and that women on the other hand, have a "sexual continuum", which means that there sexuality is more fluid and can shift and change based on their feelings for a person. they tend to lean one way (even strongly), but are more likely to swing the other way if they have strong emotions towards another person, female or not. i've done a LOT of reading on this issue.
for men, not the same. it don't matter how much you love your buddy, Steve or Ed or Frank, you ain't giving them no sugar.
what this means, is that many "straight" women are up for licking pussy as long as it's the "right" pussy and as long as the scenario "feels" right. just like always, it's all about emotions. they aren't INSTINCTIVELY opposed to it, like us guys are opposed to pole smoking.
speaking as a dude who's scored multiple threesomes, not just makeouts, it's good to study that facts
