Hey, I rarely post on these boards anymore, usually just out in-field doing my thing. (not sure if this is the right place to post this but w/e)
Kinda proud of this one cause I never had so many shittests in 1 interaction before, srsly... wtf
I wanted to share this text game (More like chat game) with you guys cause there are so many elements at play and I think (especially beginners), could learn a lot from it. That's why I put comments up as well.
Also would love some feedback on how other people would handle the interaction (especially shittests) and what I could've done better.
p.s. I hate gaming terms and love natural game so no routines were used. However having a background with PU and fieldtesting loads of stuff this stuff doesn't feel rehearsed or like a routine anymore... even though they kinda are
But I didn't have a notebook and copy pasted anything other than from my brain.
It's kinda long, but I posted it all so you could get a feel for the vibe (biggest key points in bold), hope you like it and learn something from it. Enjoy
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Quick back story: Met her in a club, number closed, texted some later but basically could never get her to agree to come out with me (tried at least 2-3 times) so I stopped texting for 3 months... and out of the blue I figured: what the hell, let's give it another go. (Seeing as my game has improved a lot over the last 3 months)
17:14 22 feb. - Coldman: Hey Snow White, how are you? long time no see
Code:
:- callback roleplay humor, basically I couldn't remember her name (lol) so I said she looked like snow white and called her that ever since (yes I know her name now before anyone asks)
17:24 22 feb. - Snow White: Hee :p what timing you have
!
Code:
:- trying to bait me to invest
17:30 22 feb. - Coldman: Timing, why?
17:32 22 feb. - Snow White: It's my b-day
17:34 22 feb. - Coldman: Oh grats!˜ how old have you become?
17:34 22 feb. - Snow White: Thanks
I'm 20 years old already!
17:36 22 feb. - Coldman: Wow! 20 years you've been living without me, how do you do it?
Code:
:- Cocky & Funny humor, implied relationship
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17:40 22 feb. - Snow White: Haha I don't know.. I'm a strong person
17:37 22 feb. - Coldman: You're gonna throw a big party too I'll bet
17:40 22 feb. - Snow White: Ive already thrown a party, but not a big one... costs too much money :p
17:41 22 feb. - Coldman: And you didn't invite me? Gee... thx.
Code:
:- implied investment
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17:42 22 feb. - Snow White: Long toes? :p
17:42 22 feb. - Coldman: Huh?
17:43 22 feb. - Snow White: if you get stepped on your toes a lot.. that's always the case with long toes
Code:
:- shittest -> Awww... are you mad? ;)
17:45 22 feb. - Coldman: Ah, I see... yea I feel very offended at the moment haha
17:45 22 feb. - Snow White: I noticed
sux that I'm not a teenager anymore now...
Code:
:- bait me to invest
17:47 22 feb. - Coldman: Why? I love being a grownup, I can do what I want (a)
17:50 22 feb. - Snow White: I can't
17:51 22 feb. - Coldman: Oh...? you've probably been naughty again? Haha
Code:
:- sexual frame -> You are naughty
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17:52 22 feb. - Snow White: Haha nein mann. Neverrrr!
Code:
:- rejected
17:54 22 feb. - Coldman: never naughty ? I don't buy it :p
Code:
:- pushing for sexual frame
17:54 22 feb. - Snow White: g2g eat
xx
Code:
:- rejected
18:04 22 feb. - Coldman: Hmm... so what do you like about being a teenager that you can't do anymore?
18:27 22 feb. - Snow White: I'll be cuter
Code:
:- bait to/fishing for compliment
:- she wants me to say: oohhh, that's not true! you'll always be cute!
19:25 22 feb. - Coldman: Haha, Well, A lot can happen on the night you turn 20
19:37 22 feb. - Snow White: welll.. not really
Code:
:- shittest (dissagreeing just to see how you'll react)
19:47 22 feb. - Coldman: Not? I thought you were the one that knew how to partyhardy
Code:
:- bait to qualify herself
20:11 22 feb. - Snow White: Haha, nein man
I never go out!
Code:
:- disqualify -> needs more attraction?
20:25 22 feb. - Coldman: no me neither, going out is soooooo boring...
Code:
:- sarcasm humor
20:25 22 feb. - Coldman: I can't even talk quietly to a friend without getting approached and being hit on by girls like you
Code:
:- Cocky & Funny humor
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21:02 22 feb. - Coldman: But flirting aside, I'm throwing a party saturday and you're invited
Code:
:- sexual frame -> we're flirting
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22:11 22 feb. - Snow White: ooooh really? was dancing sorry
Code:
note: Look at the timestamp, she took forever to reply
:- passive acceptance of the sexual frame -> Yes, we're flirting...
:- she is showing interest
:- she is DHVing herself
22:22 22 feb. - Coldman: Oh yeah, I always dance in my living room too!
Code:
:- Tease
22:29 22 feb. - Snow White: Sure
22:31 22 feb. - Coldman: what kinda dancing were you talking about?
22:33 22 feb. - Snow White: Class
22:34 22 feb. - Coldman: Salsa?
22:35 22 feb. - Snow White: Nein mann
22:35 22 feb. - Snow White: Street dance.
22:37 22 feb. - Coldman: Nein mann ich will noch nicht gehen, ich will noch ein bisschen tanzen! Haha
Code:
:- Self humor + trying to connect with a famous song (if she knows it that is... kinda shot in the dark)
22:38 22 feb. - Snow White: yaahh
22:39 22 feb. - Coldman: That's cool... most people are too lazy to have an active hobby like dancing, but you're different like that... cool
Code:
:- Genuine validation -> I'm saying: THIS is why I like you, not just your looks. This is a REALLY powerful thing to do :)
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22:41 22 feb. - Coldman: So you're gonna be in Step Up 4 haha
22:45 22 feb. - Snow White: Hahahaha i wish :p its just a hobby
whats urs?
Code:
:- interest
22:46 22 feb. - Coldman: I can only choose one?
Code:
:- DHV
22:47 22 feb. - Snow White: yupp your favourite
22:47 22 feb. - Coldman: Hmmm tricky... gonna go for snowboarding then
nothing feels better than feeling free from gliding downwards...
22:49 22 feb. - Snow White: Nothing :p ?
Code:
:- we all know what she means with nothing :) (SEX!)
22:49 22 feb. - Coldman: Even though sex comes close
haha
22:50 22 feb. - Snow White: so... you rather board than having sex ?
Code:
:- FUCK!!! Why did I say that haha. Sex = AWESOME! Now it sounds like my sex life sux
22:52 22 feb. - Coldman: You shouldn't take it so literally, I love variation and enjoying loads of things in life
Code:
:- Trying to recover saying: It's all the same pleasure, there's a time and place for everything
23:04 22 feb. - Snow White: I wouldn't know... I think sex is dirty, so I never do it
Code:
:- shittest -> hoping I'll say: Oh really? that's a shame... :( so we're not gonna have sex... ever?!?!? :(
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23:08 22 feb. - Coldman: Haha, you're funny
if you keep going I'll make you my new best friend
Code:
:- roleplay (Not really a good one tbh, better to set the roleplay of you and her already in a relationship with lots of GOOD sex)
23:08 22 feb. - Snow White: Yeeehh, could life get any better!?
Code:
:- shittest/sarcasm
23:08 22 feb. - Coldman: but just between one best friend to another.... You don't know what you're missing
Code:
:- sexual frame (SEX = AWESOME!) -> Trying to recover from an earlier mistake (setting a wrong frame of me having a louzy sexlife)
23:08 22 feb. - Snow White: What will you do with ur old bff then?
23:09 22 feb. - Coldman: Who says I can only have 1?
23:10 22 feb. - Snow White: Me
Code:
:- shittest -> I'm the boss, you're my dog... and I want you to comply.
23:10 22 feb. - Coldman: She'll be here saturday... You can tell her then
Code:
:- shittest accepted, doh!
:- implied meetup -> I'm assuming she's gonna show up
23:10 22 feb. - Snow White: I will, if I know where to be on saturday
Code:
:- showing interest
23:11 22 feb. - Snow White: Btw, fyi... bff's don't do anything with eachother
Code:
:- shittest -> We're not gonna have sex -> hoping I'll say: awww fine, you're not my bff anymore!! You're in control, I want to be your puppy cause you have a pussy!!
23:12 22 feb. - Coldman: I know... too bad for you huh
Code:
:- Cocky & Funny humor
23:12 22 feb. - Snow White: or you..
Code:
:- reversed Cocky & Funny humor, lol, she's trying to steal back the frame of: You're pursuing me!
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23:12 22 feb. - Coldman: @ my place
23:12 22 feb. - Snow White: Hmm, not sure if ill be there then
Code:
:- shittest -> trying to get me to say: awww, why not?! I want you to come!
23:12 22 feb. - Coldman: Too bad...
Code:
:- Disinterest.... couldn't care less if she made it or not, lots of other cool people coming anyway :)
:- Messed this shittest up a lot in the past, and learned how to handle it from a natural friend of mine, act like you don't mind and get other pussy, so you don't really care
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23:13 22 feb. - Snow White: but.. never say never (a)
Code:
:- showing interest -> She's saying: I'm probably gonna come
23:16 22 feb. - Coldman: You can bring a friend if you want.. cause I cant keep you company all night, or you gotta be really social
Code:
:- DHV + setting a "I'm not needy"-frame -> I'm not gonna stay with you all night like a puppy
23:17 22 feb. - Snow White: Haha I'm not gonna come alone! maybe ill come with a friend, but not alone
23:18 22 feb. - Coldman: Aah i see, i only invited cool and fun people anyway so i'm sure you'll get a long... being my bff and all you fit the criteria just fine
Code:
:- DHV + callback roleplay
23:21 22 feb. - Snow White: haha good
23:21 22 feb. - Coldman: Anyway, g2g to work in the morning, byeee
Code:
:- Leave on a high point -> Don't be her text buddy
-> Main goal of texting is to arrange a meetup, but seeing as I haven't spoken to her in a long while I figured I should build some familiarity.
23:22 22 feb. - Snow White: Kissesss.
tl:dr - Passed loads of shittests, set a flirty frame and arranged a meetup after no texting for 3 months (So basically gaming from nothing)
CHAT
girls are all over jack sparrow.
