I'm planning on interviewing a woman for my PUA blog. The video is going to be aimed at newbies. I want them to hear what actual women think of men and dating. Here are the questions I have so far:

• What’s more important to you in a man, looks or personality?
  What do you find sexy in a man?
  What is the best pick up line you have ever heard?
  What is the worst pick up line you have ever heard?
  Would you date a guy that was overweight?
  How do you feel about men approaching you in bars or clubs? How about coffee shops, book stores and similar places?
  What’s the first thing you notice about a guy?
  What’s an instant turn off for you?
  What’s your biggest turn on?

What else could I ask my hot friend?

Asking women for tips on dating is like asking.. not even going to think of an analogy.

It's fucking stupid.

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So instead you ask a bunch of guys that probably know less about women than the next guy? I've learned a lot about picking up from asking women about their experiences. Listen to their complaints and you'll know exactly what she falls for. Ignoring women and what they can teach you sounds like the fucking stupid thing to me.

Go for it if you want, just seems rather pointless to me. I'm guessing she tells you nothing new or something completely wrong because she has no idea what she wants. Which is a problem with all women. They'll describe their perfect guy as some giant AFC but of course they're not dating a guy like that and never will be.

Now hold on before we kill this idea guys maybe we should try a different take on it. Of course some of the answers women give will be your standard bullshit. Im looking for a nice guy and you should just be yourself blah blah blah bs but perhaps for your blog you could provide a translation or point out why that won't work

For example
What qualities do you look for in a guy?

Women: I look for nice guy who treats me right.

Pua commentary: Is she lying? Im sure some of you guys are labeled the typical nice guy and got friend zoned and think this is bs. What she really means when she says this is she wants a guy who makes her feel good to be around him, treats her right, and is not a push over.

Protip: Never buy a girl a drink because while you think it may be a nice thing to do in essence you are buying time with her and showing that you are not worth her time and therefore are a pushover

I believe something like that may be very good for your blog

It's a trap.

MrOrange:
Women aren't going to give you the keys to their pants just because you asked. If a girl asked how to seduce you, would you give her honest directions for manipulating your emotions, or would you instruct her to make you a sandwich, clean your pad, and cross her fingers for some action?
For the same reason, they'll mislead you and instead show you the door to getting played.

Instead, cook up an outline for a potential conversation where you can introduce some of those questions. The point is to make her THINK about it, not tell you anything useful.

This answer only makes sense when you understand it's in the context of a guy she ALREADY FINDS ATTRACTIVE.

What she's saying she wants is the badboy type that has all the alpha dominant qualities and is masculine and doesn't take her shit and so forth, but then actually treats her with respect outside the bedroom and doesn't just fuck and chuck her like all the other ones did.

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good post, good perspective, solid truth

I think a better take on the whole question game might be to make it quite sexual. Instead of asking what she looks for in a guy, ask her about what turned her on about the guys she's slept with. What did they have in common? That might get you closer to what your are looking for. Just remember your audience, afterall, newbie PUAs won't have the insight blondguy expressed above.

Also, ask girls you've slept with after the fact. For instance, "what made you want to talk/ keep talking to me" or "when did you know you were going to sleep with me." You'll be surprised about the answers and about how honest they are. Often enough, girls tend to just tell me bluntly what about me fascinates them. If they do that to you, pay attention.

Ask your interviewee "If you were a man and you wanted to pick up a really hot woman in a pub or club how would you do it?"
I asked this question almost ten years ago to a workmates sister, although in her thirties she was and had been since her teens a nailed on HB10 and in her own words had been approached by "thousands of men".

The answer helped me get my first HB9 two years later and eventually an HB10 model girlfriend.