Hello everyone,

My bro told me about all this, and i red the books he gave me.
Now my big problem is that i'm a bit shy to step out to new girls, 'cause i don't know how to open them.
Anyone got some advice?

Greetz

Well i always picture the worst thing that can happen. Pretty much in anything I do in life now. And I weigh the risks. You either fail and never see the girl again or you get her number and escalate things. There is really no reason not to step out. Opening doesn't really have to be fancy or anything the main thing is the conversation before you ask her number girls very rarely reject guys because they like to noticed and they are interested. Just try it after you do it it's not so bad you wont feel the shyness or anything. I love the feeling of overcoming my shyness it's feels really good.

Alright i'll give it a shot next Saturday.
By the way, i'm hitting on a girl SPAM, but she's kinda busy with another guy who i don't know and i've never seen him before. He doesn't come to the club i go to. Whats the best way to get rid of him?

If she goes to the club alone without him it might mean that they are not in a serious relationship if they are not, then do you really need to get rid of him?

Actually i do. She's like some kinda friend of me, so its hard to get out the friendzone already. But she keeps telling me about how cool that dude is and all. Suks pretty hard.