So ive been meeting a lot of new people recently as I just started a new job. I just have a few things im having loads of trouble on. One is eye contact. For instance I just got back from dinner with a buddy of mine. I do not like judging people by their looks but I've been told I am pretty decent looking while many girls do not think the same for him. The only problem is that even though I was very outgoing and funny, it seemed I got very little eye contact. This has happened many times. I have not had trouble getting girls in the past but it is kind of depressing. Is there any possible explanation for this? I was peacocked, the life of the party, but still I seem to go a little unnoticed.

Also I wanted to know the right amount of eye contact to make. If it is a friend of mine and two girls, should my eyes be focused on the girls or my friend. Or is there a general rule for that? Any advice is awesome.

the amount of eye contact really depends on what your comfortable with unless your trying to get better at eye contact but avoid staring contests or awkward gazes ,instead calm relaxed eyecontact and me personally i 90% of the time stare into the left eye .One of the key pharases going through my head when im in eyecontact with a girl is "who are you really" and probably "I like you I want to fuk you".
If shes looking away and not giving you much back she might not be interested or is trying to act disinterested so remember girls are natural gamers but she also might just be shy so maybe if shes saying "what?" with a blush or smile or if she puts lipgloss on randomly then your confident eyecontact has put a bit of nervous tension in the air.
As far as how much eyecontact with others present it depends on heaps of things if your meeting up with sexually comfortable girls(sluts) you guys can just focus on the girls most times because theyre already interested if its a social double date be sociable and try to calabrate her interest with a bit of breif extended eye contact here and there to flirt so dont do any flirt sht with the others.

This is what I do, and Ive got complements on my eye contact many times.

With your right eye look at her right eye. Look into her right eye and find out her eye color, say the color in your head 3 times. I do that in a routine later. Your goal is to to look through her but through her right eye. Practice first always smile and seem friendly.

this work for me let me know how it goes man Best of luck my PUA brotha

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