Hello everybody,

Here's the situation: I have a neighbour, but we weren't spending any time together until we started hanging out ocasionally through a mutual friend. She is a very hot and perverted girl:) I know this because we talked a lot about sex, I know she is submissive and we joked a lot on the subject, I even demonstrated to her how I would fuck her with a strapon while choking her with a scarf LOL (I'm a girl). She liked the demonstration very much There has been solid kino between us, massages, spanking etc. We were also joking many times how she should come to my place for a night of hot perverted sex and so on.
We were going for a walk with some girls one day, so she picked me up because we're neighbours and we started talking about my MLTR situation, and she said it was great, she'd love to have something similar because she doesn't want a relationhsip but just sex. And I said, very seriously and NOT in a joking manner, she should come to my place sometimes. She said she has so little time, but maybe she could take a night out of her schedule next week - also in a serious tone. She saw me online the other day and asked me when do I have time to hang out. We settled for tomorrow. Now, I don't know how to proceed, because all the kino, all the sex talk was through joking and in front of other people enjoying the show, so I don't really have an idea what she's expecting from our "date". I need some advice on how to casually escalate. I'm afraid if we sit down for a cup of tea or something, I won't be able to escalate propperly, since this will be the first time it'll be just the two of us, and I'm guessing we'll both feel a little bit awkward. I really hope to f-close her, if not that, at least k-close. I know I need to run the show, I just don't know how exactly. I have a feeling I should start some kino right away, right at the door as she walks in, but I don't want to come off as aggressive. If I wait with the kino, I'm afraid the situation will be awkward when I try to initiate it. My only other idea is through some massage or something. Help guys!

Massage was exactly what I was going to say.

Sit down on the couch. Talk about how she doesn't have free time and what a drag that is. Lead the conversation toward stress. Tell her that you are going to massage her to relieve the stress (Don't ask because she is submissive and the assertiveness will auto turn her on). Start the massage, if/when you see the goosebumps or feel the shiver then smell her (it's primal and subs love it). Move in to kissing the neck, work your hands around to the breasts while maintaining the kissing. Tease liberally and show that you are in control of her pleasure as you work your way down. All in all you behind her and doing all the groping is a subs wet dream. Well now I've gone and got myself all hot and bothered, swoon. Have fun and I'll give you a high five tonight in my dreams.

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Thanks a lot for the advice! I will try to be playful and start light kino right from the start and will get into the massaging naturally and casually as always. I think that is the best way to go, and all the points you made are spot on! I'll tell you how it went tomorrow:)

Well, she flaked She sent a message she can't make it and we'll have to reschedule. I replied she wasn't serious and would be punished next time She said I was absolutley right LOL. We'll see, I'm not gonna chase her. Cheers!

Sorry to hear it. I was keeping my fingers crossed for you. So I just gotta ask, are you all the way gay or bi? Not everyday you see an HB who is into pickup. Seems like an attractive scenario for a guy like me.

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I'm not even that sorry, I actually had a great night, because a HB9 friend dropped by and when the other chick flaked, we just hung out until 2 AM, laughing a lot and having fun and I know that sooner or later something will happen with this neighbour.
The sexual orientation question is a little hard to answer. I do find some guys attractive, but could never be in a LTR with a guy. With guys it can be only sex and with girls I fall in love in. Although it has been like 5 years since my last sexual encounter with a male LOL, so I guess I'm pretty gay:)

Good to hear you had a nice night anyhow. Pretty gay means a little not gay. That means somewhere in the world there is a HBPUA sleeps with men. This is me smiling (:3= googoo a jube

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.