Hey guys,

I've got a bit of a problem.
One of my reasons for engaging in PickUp was becuz my life was boring and shitty and i had absolutely nothing left to lose. That being said, my social life is a complete mess.

I go to a community college, most of my friends and social connections all left the city and state to go to a university with dorms. I'm stuck in a college with no campus activities, no clubs, few sports teams, and no social events wat-so-ever. My social circle is completely no-existent at this point and i'm still 19, meaning i dont have the easiest time getting into clubs and parties. No hookups, no venues for my age, no night-life what so ever.

That being said, friday saturday and sundays are the most boring nights of my life and aside from occasional hang outs a friends house, it doesnt get much more exciting. I'm bored out of my mind. I can't seem to find an environment where everyone is just out to party and have fun. I want to change that.

Someone help me out?

Use this as a golden opportunity to becoming exceptional at your PUA basics. PUA is more than a way to pick up chicks!!! PUA is learning the psychology and manipulation of human social interaction!!! Use your openers and DHV stories to create your social circle. Practice these basics by attracting FRIENDS both male and female. Everything else will fall into place from there.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

nordstroms mall for day game, then pornhub.com for night game

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

If you don't get in to bars and clubs, you can get a fake ID no just kidding (they are hard to make this days anyway)

Try to do some daygame and the girls you're gaming don't have to be your future girlfriends. For example:

You game one girl, you get LJBF, cool, she introduces you to her friends, you game them, they give you LJBF, they introduce you to their friends...... (exponential growth)

That's how you can expand your social circle, by introducing a friend of a friend of a friend... you get the picture.

BTW for nightgame, if you don't get into clubs, try to organize house parties with your friends.

Cheers

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

thanks guys im gonna start revamping my social circle. I'm gonna be honest, i'm kind of a shy guy at heart so i've always had to wrestle with the idea of gaming girls in the day, but i guess if i can hone my day game, night game must be a piece of cake.

there are 18 and up clubs for night game...

this thread helped me alil cuse i got the exact same problem dude

Groups of people are formed through common interests. Going to a community college, you have some opportunities to meet people who fall in your age / interest group.

Off the top of my head:
1. Around the Dorms, assuming you live in one, you can find a ton of new people. I made a lot of friends in college by just leaving the door to my dorm wide open.
2. Head to the Gym. You get some exercise and some workouts in, and its easy to strike up a conversation with anyone by just dropping that wonderful phrase "Hey man, can you spot me?"
3. Join an Interest Group. Most college campuses have a roster of interest groups you can join to find people who share your interests: although keep in mind, if your goal is to meet women, you will find more girls in interest groups that are stereotypically "girl interests" (You would choose a Twilight book group before you join a Football / Baseketball / Sports Group -- sad, but true!)
4. Meetupdotcom. As a last resort, punch in your interests into meetupdotcom and find an interest group near you. There are groups scattered everywhere, and interests run the full spectrum -- impossible not to find something that interests you.

The sad reality is that 18-20 is by and large a dry spell for most men. Girls over the age of 18 are strongly encouraged to go out to clubs, bars, and frat parties to hang with older men. My advice would be to either get a fake ID so you can go where your targets are, or take this valuable time to do some things that interest you -- after you turn 21, you'll be spending most of your free time chasing skirts, so take your last few moments of sanity to do something you enjoy

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