thats confusing because doesn't facebook have her relationship status on it? Why wouldn't she take YOUR number down so her bf doesn't find out? Oh wait she's a woman.. that explains it lol.

it is confusing...thats why i came on the forum

i think she doesn't disclose her relationship status on FB. I've never put up my status since not all my "friends" need to know what i'm constantly doing
As for why she didn't take my number down, i have no clue besides the excellent explanation you gave. My remote guess would be she was with her friends and was on her way out of the bar the first time and didn't bother with it but even thats a weak explanation so i'm sticking w/ yours

facebook close is just as solid as any post number close. you're just trying to build a connection which you can just copy shit out of gamblers natural game book, build one or two connections, some cold reads, then book a happy hour date. basically get a chance to display your player skills and rip it up, one hour is all you need to get the second and third hour and the night....

that makes a lot of sense, however.... i still find this very confusing.

Read natural game by gambler, copy some of his threads, create agreements in emotion of events, then create agreements in a common food or happy hour spot. then suggest we should totally go. then suggest a time and day, then say i will call you ___. then call them ___ that day.

I hit it off with a married woman recently (didn't know at the time) and she only wanted the facebook thing. Still confused why this is better than the phone.

Its not, but its a segway to a casual date, at which point you can shift to phone.

i dont think its a better or worse thing.


my question was more along the lines of "is there such a thing as a FBclose?"

a facebook close is similar to a number close except in most cases its weaker than a weak number close. i use it only if the number is rejected because of lack of both connection and attraction. however on flash pickups i always get last names so i can add them on facebook if my calls or texts arent returned from the fist contact attempt. this allows her to build comfort, or maybe just remember your face. add, when she accepts wait a day then attempt 2 on phone, if that fails you prep it up on facebook chat and build rapport there. as of a facebook f close or date close, get an online game expert because im not. the objective of phone game is setting up a day 2, the purpose of online interfaces is to build enough comfort to initiate phone game. setting up a meeting online has high flake percentages or objections in my experience. some prefer text and text works. the most powerful is phone because a girl is more likely to sense dominance and follow through increasing followthrough and date quality.

Interesting thread. Facebook close looks to build comfort or else she'd change her privacy on the site so she couldn't be found. At the same time that you can creep on her, she can creep on you...so you should have a tight profile...things that are interesting and DHV...IMO

I personally think a number close is best. The dominance point is great..speaking further engrains your voice and command in her head. Plus, for me, I've gotten wrapped up in a chicks profile and I really fell for her afterwards.

yeah its so easy to get wrapped up i totally agree. my objective for facebook besides her comfort was to see if i had beer goggles, and to see if she is a good girl or bad girl. any info you rip outta there and utilize if she catches you, be quick with your tongue or you risk a creepy dlv pang. ive found its mainly for her so you can secure a phone close. lots of puas fight the phonecall conversation, but find a way to get good at it, because the payout is incomparable to text in terms of emotional malleability and much faster to escalate your plans. Advantages are this.

*Instead of telling the try-hard DVH stories, you can just be confident, bold, cheerful and auto-DHV while saying normal everyday things (who would have thought?).
*Instead of spending a whole day working a girl on text and coming up with clever and appropriate words or things to say, you spend 5-15 minutes on the phone and book a date that WILL NEVER FLAKE.
*The power of selling is in the moment of emotional high. You can generate and calibrate this easily over live voice interactions, sense emotional arousal (eg. laughing), then jump in and ask the buying question. Its all logistics from there. You have much more power in a live conversation. Its a sales thing for me.

One way to totally lose phone fear is to have 7-8 numbers to call in a day, find an hour out of your day to do it, and leave the same message every time...if one doesn't call back, who gives a shit. I call mine on sunday afternoons, leaving opportunity for sunday night happy hour dates. Here's the one I use.

Hey its mike, just driving and i thought of you for a minute so i wanted to say hi. give me a call when you can.

If she picks up the phone, give the same premise. especially effective if you experienced any level of chemistry during the first interaction. Then a few minutes of "friend" level conversation, then book it up go right for the close. If you had any level of chemistry, don't wait more than a day to call, presume love destiny.