So. Yesterday. We went to a lounge. Few of my boys were coming from an old city i used to live at and we were just hanging out catching up. Little did we know the place was dead so our only escape was liquor lol. So yea we started drinking and got buzzed. We didnt wanna buy alcohol at the place cuze it was mad expensive. So we went to the car to drink the bottle we had.

So we need coke/soda to mix with alcohol so me and my boy walk down the street. We see two cute girls. One was on the phone. He wanted to approach and i wanted to seem like i can talk to girls. Didnt wanna come up as a loser. So he says i should open.

Me: You guys from around here?
HB on phone: Yea.
Me: you kno where we can buy coke?
HB: Yea theres a rite aid down the street
Me:where? right there? pointing at the end of the street
Hb: yea right down there
Me: walked away and screemed thanks. didnt know where else to go with this

My friend just stood there lol
Turns out it was closed so we went to a different place.

On way back shes still standing there.

Me: It was closed. You lied to me.
Her: Oh was it? my bad "smiling" Where did u get it from?
Me: down the street on the other side. some random store.
I walk away and say "liar" this time as im walking lol



Second approach

So we are like 6 dudes. We go to see if another place is poping down the street. We get there and there are 4 girls standing outside.

Me and my two friends wanna approach.

So me wanting to look like the cool guy again talk first! yay me!

Me: did you guys go in?
Them: yea no one is there so we came outside
Me: its dead in there huh?
Them: yea pretty much.
My friend: guys were waiting for us prolly
Them: umm not really.
Dont really remeber much. was pretty drunk.

But we all talked for bout 2 mins til my boy creeped em out and they all walked away. place way dead so we went back to the old spot.


Last and fav approach of the night. nothing special but i did good i think

we go back to the first place and there are few girls tthere. I see one on the dance floor just dancing with a friend.

her back is facing me. So i go from behind and whisper in her ear.

Me: I just wanna let you kno, your fucking hot!
HB: she turns around and has a huge smile on her face. "thank you" smiling
Me: We should dance holding her hand
HB: Smiling still. I dont remeber what she said exactly. maybe "i would" but i know last line was " i have a boyfriend" lol
Me: askin her friend. Whats her boyfriends name. He says nick.
Me: asking her. Whats your boyfriends name. She says nick aswell. Fuck.
Me: lol so what lets dance its all good.
Her: noo i cant do tht. smiling still
Me: i dont what else i really said. was really drunk. But i know at the end I was like "well it was nice meeting you. your really hot. Have fun." and gave her a hug and left.


So yea. Thats me. Still suck at this. first time ever approaching a girl tho. Dont know how to approach girls and what to say after i open or what to talk about. any tips? on what to say or talk about

Well, its a big step getting over your fear of talking to girls. Atleast youre improving
I really liked your direct approach btw, and you took it well from there aswell

Thanks man i read it here somewhere. he said just go up to her and tell her how hot she is . its shock and awe. chief posted it

Hey, it is good that you're improving and stepping up to approach. Shows your the Alpha. But when it comes to
you just have to transition, or get a better frame going. Like in the end of your convo I would have gone with:

Me:where? right there? pointing at the end of the street
Hb: yea right down there
Me: awesome, high five! been lookin for a soda machine for like 20 minutes (theres your kino, so comforts up with her a lil)
Hb: (high fives you and smiles)
Me: Im Krpytonic btw (smiling, of course id use real name though)
Hb: Im ---
Me: oh my,
Hb: what?
Me: those earings where did you get them? my friends birthday is comin up and she would love ones like those.

then I would of party closed her. like if you check my journal, where the signature is you can see how i transitioned with a cashier. But great post. keep stepin it up!

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Thanks for the advice bro! appreciate it! wil def check out ur journal