i have this problem if a girls ask me to pay for something, like i got this girl who when we hangout would be the 1 willing to pick me up since they know i dont really like driving.so then when we would pass a gas station she would mention,hey how bout u pay for my petrol?

since shes the one who always picks me up all the time when i hang out with her and this is the firstime she asked for me to pay i said sure...i know this is a shit test also but im not sure how to handle it and since shes always been the one who pick me i dont wanna sound like a cheapskate or something...so help me please so nextime it doesnt happen again...

oh and if a girl says u should pay for my meal how should i handle this?n the best not wussy way?

just say

"I don't want you to feel sexually obligated to return the favor, so you should pay".

erm thats kind of hard to say since im not speaking to her in english

It's the FIRST time she asked you to pay for petrol while she always picks you up? Stop overthinking. It's just a normal way of sharing costs...
Just don't let it become a habit.

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Optimistic?

thats wat i mean,just incase she ask for nextime cause seem to be the type of girl who thinks guy should treat women

+10 correct. Share costs its OK. Wouldn't you share petrol costs if would be one of your buddies?

If a girl asks for you to pay her meal, explain her that we live in a modern society, blah blah blah...and we go 50 /50 nowadays

...and ask her out for a drink after work.

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"Faster than the speed of love" hahaha!

Completely agree that she should front some food costs. We've been told to treat them like a princess...that in itself is a shit test.

yeah,sometimes im not careful with shit test...i sometimes forget...thanks for the info btw,so if she assume i pick u up n u must fill in fuel for me habit i should put her down?

It depends on the situation...if you live 15 minutes away and she's asking you to fill up the tank, she's taking advantage of you. If you really like the girl, it would be ideal to get her to really desire you (based on her last experience with you) so eventually she wouldnt care about the fuel.

In regards to shit tests, I wonder if someone more experienced could comment on how long a chick will shit test a guy before they truly like them and put the tests to rest. Or are shit tests something that women will always use even in relationships?