Name: Psychx

Setting: College Library

Game: Night - More Applicable To Day-game Routine Though

Set: 6 Set - Leading To A 1 Set

Achievement: Not Sure



This is my second field report that I'm posting here on the PUA forums. I was hoping that all of you who read this could give me some advice on what can be done, or what I could have done differently.

Today at school I went to the library to find a certain book that would help me in one of my classes. Unfortunately the book I needed wasn't available. After browsing the catalog for a few minutes I was able to locate a copy of the book in a college near by (everything in Rhode Island is close lol). With no hesitation, I left my college and headed towards the target library.

When I arrived at the library at the different college, I spent about 20 minutes searching for the book I needed. Sure enough I found it without any issues. As I was looking for a quiet place to check out the book a little bit, there was 7 HBAs. Six of them were in their own group, while the other HBA was studying by herself next to the group. The group of six HBAs were all around 5-6's, while the one studying by herself was a 9.

Like all college girls, gossip is always favored amongst conversation. Without further consideration I decided the 'Jealous Girlfriend' opener was the best approach to take. Side Note: The effect this opener has is truly amazing, I have not had one failure to open any set using it to date (I lost count of how many times I used it).

I approached the group of girls (keeping my back towards the target), and proceeded with the opener. I'm assuming you all know how it works at this point, so I wont bother sharing the dialog of that conversation. Anyway, to my advantage, the target injected herself into the conversation with a lot of enthusiasm. I did the usual game--applying negs and keeping her interest, to the point where I was able to isolate her for private conversation.

In my last field report I mentioned how the girls I met had personalities that I didn't favor. Well this girl had an amazing personality and she was extremely kind. Right away I started to build interest with this girl. I performed the "Cube Routine," handwriting analysis, common dialogue, small negs, small compliments, etc.

The conversation was going extremely well. I had her interested in me, I could see it. I decided at this point to explain how I don't believe looks are that important when meeting people, and I asked her what she had going for her besides her looks. Sure enough, she started qualifying herself to me, providing more information that would help me gain her favor.

With her very 'into' me at this point, I was disappointed when she provided me an IOI and situation dysfunction at the same time--she told me that I'm so interesting and not even her boyfriend has a perspective anything like my own. I decided this was something I could work with considering how into me she seemed to be. I smiled and thanked her for the compliment, and then I said "I try to understand people rather than waiting for my turn to speak, and I do the same thing with life." She smiled back at me.

As we were looking at each other for about 3 seconds, I decided to use NLP and use the visualization technique. I'm not sure the proper name for it, but it's the technique where you have the girl picture a beam of light that is a feeling inside her and have it travel throughout her body and let the colors change. Well it worked quite well.

Towards the end of the NLP technique, I feel I had an opportunity to kiss-close her, but I didn't want to risk the fact that she did say she had a boyfriend and me disregarding that by kissing her. But I caressed the side of her face (in a 'C' movement) with a light feather touch, then slowly did the same to her bottom lip. I don't know if moving in for a kiss or not at this moment was the right thing to do, but looking back, I still don't know and can't decide.

She veered the conversation for a while on her own at this point. She told me about everything that was her life; I found out more about her childhood, family, friends, heartbreaks in the past, interests, etc. I figured all these things in its self are IOIs. However, the conversations just didn't feel compelling enough for me to kiss-close her considering she would talk about her current boyfriend every now and then. It would be one thing if she was negging her boyfriend to me, but she was speaking fairly well of him, and the only thing that I had going in my favor for me it seemed like was the fact she said "he doesn't understand me the way you seem to understand me though." I tried to use that to my advantage insofar that I am capable, stating to her "I don't place walls up with those I meet, because if I did there would be no way I could understand all those unique qualities in you."

I asked for her hands (to measure her comfort level), and I moved down (no resistance, good) and pushed them together and asked her to make the shape of a gun. I separated her two index fingers and told her that one was me and one was her. I circled my index finger around her two fingers (I really wonder why this works btw) and her two fingers went together. She said "that's amazing!" I responded to her by saying "the universe brings those who belong together closer each moment, that's the laws of attraction." She blushed (IOI maybe....) and said "I never thought about it that way." Maybe I could have kissed-closed her again right here, but that fact that she has a boyfriend, and the fact I didn't want to get slapped across the face in a library made it so I held back and only smiled instead.

At this point we were conversing for a good three hours, so I decided to say to her "I'm sorry, I wish I could talk more, but I really do have a test I need to study for." She looked at me and said "oh I'm sorry I distracted you this whole time! I should be studying for my nursing exam too lol." I tried to number-close by saying "I would like to talk to you again sometime over coffee when we both have more time on her hands, I can call you when I'm free." Her eyes moved down, left, re-center, down, right, re-center, and toward me where she said "ummmmmm... I'm sure kinda worried about what my boyfriend will think, but I'll give you my number." I don't know if I made the right move here but I turned toward her and said "listen *taking a pen* here is my number, call/text me if you ever want someone to talk too, or you want a different perspective." The reasoning why I did this instead of taking her number was to remove any pressure or concerns she had about her boyfriend. Maybe this was the wrong thing to do?

As I got up and left she stopped me and said "I hope we see each other here in the library again so we can talk." I turned around and said "anything is possible, have a good night." And I left the library and headed home.

So I didn't get a number or a kiss-close, even though I felt both were doable. Maybe I was too cautious in the situation and I should have been more daring. What do you all think?

Thanks for taking the time to read this whole field report lol.

I think you were very right. Both we're very very do-able. She was even about to give you her number.

I think the only reason she kept talking bout her boyfriend was to prevent herself from feeling like she's a slut if anything does happen "owh well, I told him I had a boyfriend, but he kissed me anyways. He went in for it, NOT me so I did my part."

Ya I failed to execute something I read in "The Game." Style said something along the lines of ' to get a girl, you have to be willing to lose them.' I should have taken the chance and just kissed her. Maybe there will be another opportunity, maybe not. Either way I'll be better equipped for subsequent situations. Thanks for the reply!