So I started talking to this 9. She ended up texting me and saying we should hang out during the weeknd. So I wait till Friday, text her and see if she likes Thai Food. She says yes so I tell her shell love the place I want to take her to tomorrow then.

So I pick her up, she introduces me to her mom and shows me her room and we leave. She immediately starts telling me her life story, as in all her problems and talking about many of her EX boyfriends etc...kinda weird but I felt it made her vulnerable so it made me less nervous because she is smoking.

We go to dinner, and then to dessert where my buddy whos family owns the restaurant gives us dessert on the house after the place is closed. Then we go to the movie but during the movie I forgot gum and my breath is bad so I do not dare to whisper to her! And since it was our first time hanging out, I did not do enough Kino unfortunately.....Sad I did open every door and the car door when we would leave everytime....whatever that means =P

So she texts me she had a really great time that night and I tell her me too Goodnight! And she texts me back later...p.s. my mom likes you.

The next day we text but when I mention I am good at giving massages(in a totally not creepy way) she dosent text back for two hours and when she does she is in good humor but i was pissed so I didnt reply....

on Valentines day, I suprise her with her favorite sees candy and a flower waiting for her in front of her house....she says i am incredibly sweet and it brightened her historically terrible day and we texted a little after that but she hasnt texted me since....its been two days....

She is leaving for Boston for 4 days so maybe she is sidetracked and thinking about other things and I'm sure I can get a second date. I'm just worried and really want this to work....Thank you for anyone whos read this. I extremely appreciate you taking the time.

Any help or suggestions on what to do would be awesome. I plan to just not text her until she texts me as to show her I'm busy and not attached although I am a gentleman and do nice things for her.

This is my opinion, I don't consider myself a PUA but I'm not an AFC.

She seems to like you, like someone told me on a thread, the girl have a life so don't be pissed if she doesn't answer right away.

Also, she maybe didn't answer your txt because she read it but was too busy to answer right away (like if she's at work) and then because it was marked as read she didn't think about it (Happens to me sometimes).

Don't over-think about it. If I was you, I would txt her after her trip (1-2 days after she comes back). But like I said it's only my opinion, I would like to see other's too.

Good luck.

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

i'm not convinced that there is a "non-creepy" way to text a girl saying "hey, i'm good at massages."

I think you could wait at least 5 days and no more than 7 after she comes back

If you text her before make sure u neg her, not in the first message but on the followings.. try to make she fells that she has to work to get back where u stopped, dont be too easy..

btw Im not a PUA too, just giving u my opinion - and I dont think saying Im a good massagist or something like this is creepy, but it has to be said in the right time not from thin air

Good luck!

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"Fuck it, lets do it"

Thanks for all the advice. She was complaining to me of the soreness of her back and neck from sitting on her bed while studying, so although maybe creepy, it was not out of context haah