long story short... met a 21yo girl who just moved to the east coast to straightn her life out... with a new good job, school etc. She was dabbling in solo porn and webcam stuff for a year or so prior but got fed up and wanted move life east to start over

i figured this was perfect for a no strings attached type thing, she was younger and turned out to be a serious nympho. k-closed and hj on first date, f-closed on second date.

she then invited me to stay out of town with her for a weekend work trip, it became a lovey dovey attachment by day...sex fest by night...rough sex, slutty outfits, swallows, and anal....i was in boyhood heaven last weekend.

she then wanted to know "where do we stand?" and i told her i wasnt ready to commit to a serious relationship at the moment eventhough i was secretly starting to have feelings for her. she kept the clinging going for a week, knitted me a scarf and a hat, told me how much she missed me while she was away for work travel, told me she was falling for me and didnt want to get hurt.

bomb drops one night later in the week...she calls me crying like crazy...her cheating exbf of 3 years called her after a 6 month break up. i instantly told her i wasnt going to be her shoulder to cry on over an ex but assured her id make her feel better at the moment.

again she clinged on me up until valentines day...."we have to talk" blah blah blah "my ex and i have been talking, he cheated on me so many times but i still love him" " i want to know if you still want to continue what we have going now that you know im an emotional mess?" (keep in mind, hes 3000 miles away)

i told her i wasnt looking for anything serious from the get go, but i admitted that i started to have feelings for her eventhough i didnt act on them. She seemed pretty offened by that and started getting defensive, even tried to justify her ex's multiple affairs by saying everyone has faults.

it seems like her interest just died completely, so i just backed of entirely... i now know shes kind of a headcase over her past, but the sex was great and id like to keep this going as it was

.. how do i play this if and when she makes contact again?

oh gawd, haven't had a nasty bitch like that in a long time!

swallows and anal! for the win!

hence why i cant let this one slide that easy

We met up last and she slept over to talk, she already disconnected emotionally so I was sort of feeling the dead end.

She brought up how she felt she was putting so much into US and I wasn't reciprocating, the fact I was still on p o f, that she spent hours to make me things to show how much she cared. Meanwhile I told her I wasn't looking for a relationship when she continuously brought it up. I wasn't ready for it...she tested me this weekend by not texting me to see if i would ask if she made it home alright. i never did, and i ignored her the next day too. She questioned why all of my feelings came up once she was out the door.

I'll admit I got insecure and i questioned myself if she is hiding anoth guy in the mix of this... I've never met a girl that could discontect emotionally without connecting emotionally elsewhere, maybe I'm just beating my self up.
I came to work and she is still sleeping at my house... I just woke her up to say bye and told her to take care of herself

i guess playing the dickhead role only works in the begining and needs to taper off after sex... i shouldnt be kicking myself... i planned on a piece of ass to begin with and got what i asked for...but i couldnt help but catch some feelings for the girl

edit....


the dickhead role needs to continue even after you had sex

she made me feel like this was all my fault for not wanting a relationship...

meanwhile i just found out that she went back to fucking the guy she left previous to me, now they are in a relationship... this whole exbf story was just her excuse to not feel guilty....man i am fucking pissed

Well at least you learned a valuable lesson...Don't take sluts seriously. Sluts have unstable emotions and are unfit for real relationships. Its almost like they have psychic powers...The second they sense you starting to take them seriously, a switch goes off in their heads and they act all nutty.