right well
we met at a party on friday, we talked for a bit we danced, nothing happened .
i then number closed her on facebook the next day
the next day we were texting and i say we coul dactually meet up some tme in the holidays, she says thats good

she is performing a play over tues,wed and thursday
i plan to call her on the thursday night or something

I HAVE NEVER REALLY CALLED UP SOMEONE ASKING FOR A COFFEE DATE!!!! (need help there)
what should i say etc etc

also what shpuld i do for a first date - i her that the first date should only be 40 mins long or something like that

shes hot, and has plenty of status, like head girl at the school etc
but so am i , im very popular, year above her - so does that give me an edge over the chumps in her year?

thanks guys

shes hot, and has plenty of status, like head girl at the school etc

This is great for her, but it should mean absolutely nothing to you.
Her looks, and status should not phase you, or impress you.
She is expecting you to be timid and or nervous around her. Why? Because 95% of the guys she encounters act that way.
You need to communicate your confidence and unwillingness to seek her approval.
You think she is cute, but you will not make her the center of your universe. She has to put forth some effort and you will not under any circumstances put up with her bullsh*t.

Why am I telling you all this? Because you need to make this mindset part of your personality. If you have this attitude, everything will fall into place.

Personally, I wouldn't ASK her out for coffee. Plan something fun to do over the weekend and invite her along. You do not have to be sitting at an expensive restaurant for a candle light dinner, holding hands in a movie theater, or sipping coffee to build attraction. These are all 'nice' things to do, but we know that nice doesn't get you laid, right?

I have been able to build enough attraction (without the traditional methods of dating) where married women have offered themselves to me. And the good girls that do not, take every opportunity to flirt with me. If I can do it, YOU can do it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

If i may add,

Start the phone call with some chat about what u did and she did ETC.
Try to think about some things u can talk about before calling if you need to
Don't talk longer then 10 minutes on the phone.
At the end u ask her out and then say you got to go to do some things!

Goodluck!

thanks guys- this has been really helpful , but what can i do for a fun day 2 out?
and i am the non nervous kinda guy- well maybe on the phone to chicks i have a liking for...