So, how do I set the frame that I am just looking to "Hang out" and casually date and not in this for the long haul... YET? I've been getting much better lately (NATURAL GAME IS AWESOME) and lot of number closing and k-closes and day 2's but I dont want a relationship, but I have no problem dating. How do I let women know this?

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This may get you there. In short, just be honest and up front. Don't sting them along by giving false hope.

In short, I try to throw a subtle hint in there while talking about something that I am just looking for fun. But, if I don't get a chance to, if we are about to kiss I will literally pause it and say something like, " look, I find you attractive and all, but I am not ready to give a relationship, so if you are looking for one, we should NOT do this." You might lose the make out in a few occasions, but to my surprise, it actually had the the response of, "I don't care." The few that do walk away, better for you that you stopped the drama right away. For those who continue through with it, you will STILL get girls feel the challenge to convert you...but NOW, you have a way out...."I told you and was up front with you that I wasn't wanting a relationship...." she has no excuse unless she try's to make you feel misogynistic by playing the victim card...

Problem is, guys try to tell girls what they want just to make out with them...if you have options and are making out on a regular basis, you won't NEED to make out with this girl and the confidence underneath all that will be communicated to all women, making you more attractive to all anyways....

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goddamn, that's some good advice

Imo I always tell girls what I got on my mind, what I'm planning to do and I dont lie. If I suspect them of wanting an LTR I just tell them I'm not ready for an LTR, and leave the choice to them. From here on they can't blame me for misleading them, and I aint done anything wrong.

Telling whats on your mind, telling them whats on your mind and stop lying will get you laid a lot more, and will make you a better person overal.

Appss is absolutely right.

It's about being honest. It's about clarifying the expectations and letting girls know what's going so they can make a real choice whether they want to be in a particular situation or not. If a girl knows before hand that you're not looking for a serious relationship and yet you both hook up, she knows it's just a fling. She can lie to herself all she wants, but deep down she knows that it will not be a serious relationship. It takes almost all the heat off of you because you're so honest and you don't have to play the lying card to get sex.

If it does end, the likelyhood of it not ending sour increases tremendously.

I try very hard to clarify the expectations before anything happens. It just takes a lot of awkwardness out of it, and sifts out a lot of girls that are looking for something before it goes too far.