I've really tried not making the same mistake,..and am very confident to open anyone or any HB when I really need something,.like direction,time or even other personal things one wouldnt normally ask from a stranger BUT thats when am truelly in need of them,..but just when i intend to game HB's i get stuck and do nothing,..i dont kno why and it's killing me

take a trip out of town and intentionally blow out 50 sets. Walk up to random girls and say "nice bazongas!" you will realize that nothing too bad ever comes of it and be cured.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

The solution for this is just open, if you are indeed not comfortable in ur own town, that's no problem, go to a city where nobody knows you, and open open open...

It's all about comfortzones and mindsets...

Currently you are not comfortable with opening a HB for the purpose of gaming her...
Imagine you are not gaming her, but you see a nice girl who you would like to give a chance meeting you you can't know a person before talking to her, can you...? You like what you see, but can she live up to the expectations...

Now, get comfortable, pushing ur comfortzone will get you comfortable, see it as a ride in a rollercoaster, you feared it once, but now you love it, and you want to go continously in it...

If you fear something and you still do it you will get comfortable, and no longer fear it...

and remember...
Regret is worse then rejection and
if you'll lose her, you'll loser her, NO PROBLEM

hope this helped...

So why not open them now with what's the time/where is x street/... I do that. It's a social question before opener

P.S.: If you can't do that try the Newbie mission.

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

am not a person who travels alot and i like going direct,..so i geuss i'll just stick with my town,..though and am going to see it from my first 5 approaches in pU