I've been seeing this 22yr old Asian HB8.5 who's a virgin, shy, LSE, and hasn't been kissed before. She wouldn't let me fclose her. She wouldn't give me BJ either, but HJ yes and she lets me eat her out. :-S She's got LMR each time we get together. I suspect she wants to wait till marriage with losing her virginity. I made it clear that we're FB but she seems to be pushing towards LTR. She's giving me shit tests like "Why do you like me?" "Do you love me?" "How many girlfriends did you have?" "I'm boring and stupid, don't like me!"

How do you turn the frame around and fuck her? Is she seeing me as a potential husband that's why she won't let me fuck her? Or am I missing sth?

Things I tried:

Cocky funny bad boy teasin frame all the way - got stuck in seduction. for example I removed her pants and shirt then we fooled around a little, then she jumps up and redresses. wtf? This happened 3 times

Deep raport, no cnf or teasing - she's more comfortable, and LMR decreases, but I noticed she gets nervous when I finger her (religous reasons?), still no fclose or bj

LJBF her - she agreed, though nothing else

prolonged freez out, ignore her - she was confused, but after several days SHE opened me and gave me iois. (I open her usually)

????

Take her on a date, have a lot of fun, get good kino in and build a lot of attraction. Go back to your place or whatever... cuddle up and eat some fruit or something... give her passionate and romantic type of emotional qualifiers and SOIs. Start kissing, go down on her. Work on your cunnilingus skills. Make her cum once before you even finger her, then make her cum again with your fingers, then come up and whisper in her ear something passionate and reassuring while you tease her with your dick, like "I love you baby, I wan't to take your virginity."

Then F-close.

When she jumps up and puts her clothes on just turn the lights on in your bedroom and do something like go on your laptop or what not. She'll ask what you're doing and just say to her "when a woman says 'no' I respect that." She will begin to moan and want to make out and feel the affection again, that's when you tell her to take off her pants, and she'll do it for you. This is Style's method that apparently worked well for him in his book. Good Luck!

Not to lecture, but she's a virgin..... are you sure you want to take that away from her by just meaningless sex?