"I'm not gonna call you"



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 3:28 am 
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Recently I went to a club and met two attractive women. I went through all the motions and finally isolated the target by the bar. We had spent about half an hour together by this stage. I had left my phone at home but decided to number close. After we talked some more and had our shot I said we should talk more another time blabla. I said she would have to get my number though since I hadn't brought my phone. She said "I'm not gonna call you" but took my number anyway. I joked lightheartedly about how it would be a weird experience for both of us, that we needed to push through. (What should I have said?)

Anyway about 5 minutes later we kissed and did several times more throughout the night till the point she was straddling me and it was getting pretty intense.
We left the club I stayed at her place, though we slept in the same bed we fell asleep in about 1 second, I didn't care I was stuffed. I fell asleep first actually.

The next day we watched some tv and I left. No more kisses! Though when she woke up she kept giving me sex eyes, then pulling away when I touched her.I froze her out, a little more sex eyes, more pulling away. WTF! Any ideas on this would be fantastic coz it was a total headfuck.

I said I was going to a party that night if she wanted to come with her friend. She said she would text me.

She never texted though. It has been a week, so that ship has sailed. I need to do better next time. She was from interstate, I still think if I had played my cards right I would have had her on that day 2.

Also we were both a little drunk the night before. Not smashed just a little and when we woke up the next day it felt maybe a little awkward? We felt more like strangers again. That's the best way I could describe it. I still wanted her though and the sex eyes pulling away thing totally threw me off.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:26 am 
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It's because you're supposed to be making all the moves, and doing the calling. When she said "I'm not gonna call you" she was only verbalizing the way it works. If a woman calls, it can make her look desperate, so she won't do it. How come you just didn't get her number on a piece of paper?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 5:43 am 
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I didn't take pen and pad clubbing with me ?? lol


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 4:04 pm 
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Take her phone and put your number in and call or text your phone so you get her number on your caller ID. Or when you were at her place she must have had a pen or a paper.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:03 pm 
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I've has a think and TBH I think she got buyers remorse because we escalated too fast. If I had slowed it down I know she would have felt more comfortable calling me later.


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Well your gut feeling later is usually correct.


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