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PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:25 pm 
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It's up to you, different guys have their own ways of doing things. It's a process to figure out what works best for you and what doesn't work you. If you can hold off and freeze her out until tomorrow that's what I'd do. If you want to take the playful route and text her tonight saying that, do it, see what works for you. You don't get it right every time, just don't be afraid of failing because even in failing you're living and learning.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:31 pm 
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You shouldn't keep asking her to confirm it, it just shows that you have no self confident and worry about her changing her mind. What I do is I set up a day, and go on without contact until an hour or two before the date and send her something vague yet interesting " K ill see you at xxxx, wear something cute ! PS: dont wear you high heels, you have been warned !"
Usually the girls always contacted first to confirm it thou.

There are couple key points to help you improve next time when setting a date with a girl:
- DO NOT keep confirming it
- BE in CHARGE, make plans and stick with it, dont let her feel that you're unsure about the whole thing
- DO NOT ask her if she wanna hang out, TELL her to come.
- DO NOT make plan according to her schedule, give her a day if she said she cant make it, say "Too bad, that's the only time i can squeeze you in my busy schedule"
At this point if the girl is interested in you, she will start chasing and try to set up another option.


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Tell us what you did and what happend???


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