ok well im new to pick up and i tried my first set today with 3 girls, i was about to use an opener when all of a sudden the girls just laugh at me in my face (i came up forward not behind or anything) they said not a chance honey and started to giggle together as they walked on, i was so embaressed and felt horribly rejected because of the way i look, all my life ive been getting rejected by women , never even kissed one or had a girlfriend....i guess what im asking here is was that just an unlucky first set?, im an ugly guy so are my looks just stopping me from being able to do this??...

Dude keep your head up, we've all went thru this (I still am and I'm very optimistic about it) and the only way to get better is to fail a lot, there is nothing embarrassing about failing if there is anything about failing it's respect.

The respect of trying and persistance and really you can read all theory and everything in the PU community, but when you boil down to basics, how did Ross Jeferies started, how did Mystery started, they didn't knew shit about game, but they were PERSISTANT and they figured it out and today they are top PUAs.

Advise: Never let that total stranger in a club or anywhere else controles your emotions by rejecting you. She said no, good, the next one will say yes.

I can tell you one thing tough: Nothing in this world that's worth having comes easy.
(I stole that from here): the-best-advice-i-ever-got-vt48464.html

So keep fighting and you'll be the winner

Salut

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Man you are going to give up after one try?

Has nothing to do with looks, is the way you perceive yourself if you go into a set unconfident, knowing you are ugly, you are doomed, first of all relax, believe me it wasnt an unlucky this is how the game is played to be good you need to practice, you werent expectacting knowing a few lines and magic would happen and girls will fall for you, if this is the case give up. You are going to get more rejections, to a point that it doenst bother you and you will open more ease.

Girls rejected you in past good for you who cares? what matters is the present and future never had a Gf? you should see the top PUAs the age they lost their virginity before doing somehting to change that. Improve your game.

And take that stupid ideia that you are not handsome boy and throw that in the trash.
I perceive myself has handsome. I had girls open me out of nowhere, Girls being very nice and girls who are completly assholes when I open, is the way you carry yoursrelf after that , that will make the differnece, I had girls who said Fuck off blow smoke to my face, but after 2minutes they are asking my attention. Has nothing do with looks it helps a bit just because improve the way you perceive yourself,

As Style says...
There are no such things as rejection...just learning curves.

What you should of done was either plough through by Negging something like

Girls- Not a chance
You - Wait did you think i was coming to hit on you? no not at all i just needed a females opionion on something then im leaving * Go into a opner* then play it from there.

Also try approaching from the side its less in their face and makes it seem like its more spontanious rather than a pick up.

Who hasnt had rejections? you need to learn more and move on you have bad days and good days.

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Two words...Inner Game. Seriously.

Not to rehash what Kupid said, but I'd like to quote my first Drill Sergeant.
Second thing is, learn from failure. I feel like it's a quote from somewhere, but I can't remember, the gist of it being. "Success teaches us nothing. It is only from failure that we learn."

In my opinion, you're already on the right track, in that you didn't blame them. It may sound cruel, and apologize if that's the way you take it, but for the most part, when a set backfires like that, it's your fault. Don't let that be a bad thing. I'm a big believer in recognizing ones weakness and faults, of which I am in no short supply. But I recognize them, so that means I can do something about it. It's when you're like a buddy of mine, though I love him like a brother, and you think that the reason you can't get women is because of them, or because of who you are and that you can't change, that you really start to stagnant.

The key here, is self awareness, and perserverance. Realize, "Hmm, came in at the wrong angle. Clearly made it look like I was trying to pick them up." And, adjust fire, in artillery parlance. I believe it's referred to as calibration in PU terms. It's a learning experience.

One of the first sets I tried to open, before discovering Game, I got blown out horribly, and even then (I have recently upped my self awareness level ten fold) I shrugged it off, and blamed myself for coming on too strong.

One caveat, though, don't make the opposite mistake of not going for it because you want to learn from a failure. I did that recently and am STILL kicking myself for it.
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Here's to the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to tell the difference between the two.
(My Personal Pick Up Motto)

Yeah your right guys thanks for the advice, i forgot about social calibration and i was doubting myself going into the set. I appreciate the help once again.

There is NOONE!!!! that have 100% sucess, not even 50%? or 40%? 30%?.. .. 20?..5%?

Ofc we can define sucess as a numberclose or what ever but in the end how often do we feel like "damn i totaly nailed that set" or is there something like that?

We have all been there man, dosn't matter how meny times you fall aslong as you don't quit. As my father told me once and i'll never forget it "The only loser is the quitter"

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- "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France" - Voltaire

Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.