So... I'll keep it short and sweet.

Met a girl, it was ON, hung out, K-Closed, Had a fun date. A Keeper.

Told her I would meet her out, she was with friends and I was too, but met another girl while waiting for her, this girl was cool too... cuter. It was ON... night went on and other girl came in and I stayed with the new girl. K-Closed the new girl...

If I want to keep gaming both... how do I txt/call the girl I met first... after she saw me with a new girl. Should I just pretend nothing happened, and have her buy into my frame that I am a casual dater?

Ideas?

you don't have to explain yourself to her.

you can do whatever you want.

just a pick a frame(whatever that is/i don't know what you want) and stick by it.

the first girl may give you shit like "i could never be with a guy like that", but if she sees you're strong person, she will fold.

what i do in those situations i saw afc adam do. i have 2 phases:
1. i am with one girl and her smile is all i need
2. until i find that one girl i enjoy myself cause i don't want girls to waste my time.
i'm just not sure you're that "one", you could be, i like you, but i need more time to get to know you.

the truth is SHE WILL BE PISSED. You just need to stay firm and show her YOU'RE NOT AFRAID OF LOSING HER.

give her a few days and she will come around.

good luck!

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I have to return some videotapes...

This voice mail message works excellent to do pull-backs.

"Hey just driving right now, had a few minutes and i thought of you so i wanted to say hi. Gimme a call when you get this!"

All the girl wants to know is that you still care. You're single so you can do whatever the hell you want and she can't say shit. You will 99% of the time get an Aww thats sweet. Re-engage on telephone, set up another happy hour date, that night if possible, re-close. BOOM done.

If you wanted to see both of them you would have grabbed a phone number from the new girl as as soon as the original walked in("hey there's my friend, I need to say hello, give me your number") and switched to her("hey, was just talking to a friend I know from blah blah"). Neither girl would have anything to hold against you.

Unfortunately, you ignored the one you had plans with , and did it right in front of her, without explanation, and with another girl(disrespect, hurt feelings). Then you stayed in the same place and made out with her in public(no discretion). Spies were watching dude.

If you don't care, then that's your prerogative, but basically I don't think anyone came out better in that situation.

from the old guys I hang with , its always "leave em better than you found em".