Hey,
Been lurking around for a while but never thought to register, but could do with some advice. Basically a couple of nights ago whilst out with a mate we met up with some foreign chics that he gets on well with, whilst chatting with people a HB8 was paying particular attention / getting into the kino and throwing in some IOI's (hand squeeze, holding gaze).
Being my AFC self I didn't try to escalate for a couple of reasons, mainly because I put the kino down to her being Portugese (they were all getting super close & lots of contact), and secondly because I couldn't isolate.

Whilst walking to the bar she grabbed me and started talking about how old I am (I'm 20) and then revealed that she was 30 (I was surprised - she looks about 23) but it didn't bother me and we carried on talking about how young she looked etc.

Anyway the night went on and everybody was smashed so we left it there and hugged and said goodbye with the standard complimentary kiss on the cheek and I thought no more of it.

When we got back home my mate couldn't contain his excitement (fucking weird) and basically explained that the HB8 had talked with him and explained she thought I was really cute and basically digged the fuck out of me BUT said she thought I was too/very young. I've got a day 2 coming up soon at a party (should be fairly quiet). I've definately built up comfort and by the sounds of it & IOI's the attraction is there too - so as far as I can see my real obstacle is trying to get her over the fact that I'm younger than her.

Any suggestions on the way to frame it? Hopefully it's going to be easy to isolate and I can go for a k/f close but any particular advice if she declines on the age issue?

Cheers fellas
Triple.

Yeah. Don't. She brings it up, you say "that's bullshit" and move on. If she persists, you neg her with "well you don't hear me going on about how you're a wrinkled old prune, do you?" If she still persists, "You gonna get on with robbin' the cradle or are we gonna do like this all night?" Then k-close if you've got any inkling that you can pull it off at all.

Women fuck younger men. Particularly younger men that spend time at the gym. My record back in the day was a 13 year gap. Only thing wrong with that HB9 were some wrinkles around her eyes. Thankfully, that woman knew she wanted to go out and fuck some college boy. Poor gal didn't know how to masturbate. Come to think of it, I guess she was a Cougar before that term became common.

Sounds like this Portuguese chick is having some kind of bullshit internal head drama about whether she should be fucking you or not. So instead of answering for herself "yes she should," she hems and haws about your age. Well, unless you really are just blowing it due to immaturity. Assuming you can get past that, just close her and short-circuit her bullshit.

Don´t bring the age up yourself! if she does simply use this line: "Oh i know it must be hard for you, let´s take a quiet minute so you get over it".
I use it every time someone older than me commenting on my age. Works like a charm. They will not expect it and there reaction it funny... looking at you, confused and not saying a word. And when that happens, continue talking like you always does:)

And remember the important part, this SHOULD sound "cocky-funny" the "it must be hard for you" should sound like you are telling her that "it must be hard for you that you are that old and im still young"

GL keep me updated.

Hey guys thanks for the advice. It went great!


A few of us turned up at around 9ish and we started chatting (it was quite late because she and some others work in a bar the next village away). Initially she was VERY cold towards me, wouldn't engage in conversation, no kino or any touching. After the dinner, people started snaking off and her attitude changed completely. I managed to DHV and build tonnes of rapport. When we were alone she kept bringing up the age issue - which I tried to shrug off as you said, but she wasn't having any of it. I had to keep expressing the fact that she looked young, and that she hangs around with people from my age and needed to understand that's how people see her, not as a 30 year old.

Eventually everyone dissipated, and we were left chatting for ages. I can't believe I was such an idiot at this point! After a while it got to the point where we both didn't want to leave for some reason (just standing doing shitty jobs, picking things up). I finally decided to man the fuck up and whilst she was looking at me I just stared straight into her eyes. I must have held that fucker for a good 10 seconds and was shitting myself! Finally, she came out with "Oh my god, they're going to lock me up!"
BOOM! We must have made out for 30 fucking minutes! I was supposed to be going home that night so suggested we left and got a taxi. I wont go into the details, but the rest of the night was great fun in my room....


Cheers fellas!
Triple