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| dude with stick | PostPosted: Fri Feb 11, 2011 11:52 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 4:52 pm Posts: 18 | | Whaddap Boys,
Long story short, I met this girl and started talking about random stuff, Boring crap. I played the cube game with her and she was really amazed and started pouring her heart out when I mentioned the horse.
Here is how I caused the break up:
She started talking about her relationship, and she says she's a little confused. I started talking about this "love" thing as something that is almost unattainable - making it sound something out of a fairy tale - prince charming that takes your breath away as soon as you meet him crap. She believed it, and started asking me questions like "do you think there's a better guy out there for me?" I basically answered her question with a question, like "there's 6 billion people in the world: what do you think?"
From there, everything started to unwind.
Sorry for not being too detailed, it was an exhausting 3 and a half hour conversation.
So I found the key is for you to answer her questions with a question, let her think of the answer, and you can kind of steer her decision. But build rapport first.
Let me know what you think guys. :)
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| mdlam | PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:12 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2010 9:52 am Posts: 39 Location: Seattle WA | | you are boss, i'm putting that in my toolbox. the fairy tale part sounds key can you detail?
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| dude with stick | PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:30 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 4:52 pm Posts: 18 | | It varies from girl to girl, in every relationship, the girl is going to be complaining about something. In my case, she didn't like the way he walked, the way he smelled, and other minor stuff.
I played with that by saying "you is not attracted to the way he walked, talked, and smelled because you are not attracted to him at the core"
Her: "But I like that he does this and that blah blah blah."
Me: "Don't you think those are qualities of a friend?"
Her: "Yeah..."
Keep the conversation going, ask her these kinds of questions and she will slowly start to distant herself from her bf emotionally. Then you go for the kill.
Me: "Do you see a future with him." or "Do you see yourself marrying him?"
*if you ask this question too early, she might say yes, which could set you back.
Her: Not really...
Me: "I know that there are definitely better guys out there, and you are a nice girl so you can attract them no problem. What do YOU feel you should do? Remember, follow your soul, women have very good intuition."
Done.
Anyway, the important thing is to play off of what she tells you. Most girls are not satisfied with their bf because their "nice guys" and they don't feel attracted.
It took a while for me to convince her because I made her realize everything wrong with him.
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| mdlam | PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:32 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2010 9:52 am Posts: 39 Location: Seattle WA |
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