Hey let me introduce myself im a junior in high school my name is John. I have a really outgoing personallity, but I usually run outta of stuff to say to girls i dont really know. The problem being is that my parents dont let me out of the house and wont till i get my license in 2 months. I joined track and made some new friends. The thing is i dont know what to do when I get my license and how to ask them to hang out. I am friends with this kid hes "popular" he invited me to hang out with him once and I did we went to this girls house they were hot.Ive never hooked up kissed a girl. I used to have a bad mindset as a freshman but am improved now. I am currently reading secrets of the alpha male. I really want to be popular by senior year. I get my license in april. I am working out right now. I have a nail problem where they look black cause of my body not making the right vitimins cant do anything about it doctors tried people look at it and ask what happened (SOME PEOPLE ARE MEAN OR JOKE ABOUT IT AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY). Anyway I dont know what to say when ass holes make fun of it or girls ask what happened. Anyway my main things are learning convo with people I dont know. How to be more interesting.

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Say what comes to mind.

Keep it real and chill out in whatever environment you're at.

Most importantly however, gauge the energy of the people you're about to interact with and adapt yourself to it when you go in to talk to them. You can get instant results, combined with sufficient wit and banter-ability.

I have a few ideas for you.

What are you good at, that your friends really like about you? Do you play any instruments, are you funny, do you have any cool hobbies or talents? If so, start taking action and organize activities around stuff you enjoy and are good at. Here are some examples:

if you are a musician - start a band and jam in your school
if you like humor - do open mic nights where everyone plays around
if you like sports - go ice skating or whatever you do
if you like to do art - get together with other people and do it

Try joining a couple clubs and seeing what you really enjoy. You will become friends with the people in the club, and there might even be some girls. Get a friend or two to join you in these activities.

When you meet other people (guys or girls) and you are hitting it off, you can invite them to your next activity. You can tell a girl to bring her friend. The girls will enjoy being invited and they will enjoy spending time with you since you have a lot of fun in your activities, especially since your friends are there. They might even invite you to their activities.

When you invite new people to your group, play the host and introduce everyone. Teach the girls something you are good at -- women really enjoy learning from a man who knows what he's doing. Ask the guys about their own interests, and introduce them to the girls you know. There is a good chance they will invite you to their own groups.

This is how you can become popular and get a good reputation in just a few months. When girls ask each other about you, they will know who you are and what you are about. Then if you really like a girl, after she has spent some time with you and your friends, you can take her out and show her other sides of you. If she had fun when you invited her the first time, she will like what she sees and she will be happy to go out on a date with you. That's when you have to choose a good setting (picnic, ice skating, whatever) and make sure to walk her home. Don't push, you are in high school, and wait for her to be on the same page. You might notice once you date several girls that she wants you more than you want her. Once a girl likes you and you like her, she can be your girlfriend.

Hope this helps,
Greg

Thanks guys for your imput but i just want a little bit more of an opinion on what to do when i get my liscens so i can more interesting and because i have a really hard time haveing a conversation because i havent really done anything and I cant relate with certain people I can be really funny but cant really be that interesting. Thanks guys for your help.

I realized that people don't really react to what you say, but rather how you say it. For example a teenager talking about sex and being horny gives off a perverted vibe. Take that same guy and have him talk about sex in a more "did-you-know" manner and it becomes an interesting lecture. If you keep a straight face, people won't feel awkward. Telling stories is a great way to fill time. I tell stories about my daily drives to school, about drives to the grocery store, about people i see and meet in public environments. Say whatever you think of, but alternate you're tone, be enthuastic, and ultimately act like you're a cool dude.