Ok so i recently met this girl on fb that i had been to school with ages ago. I started txting her we met a couple times and i ran game on her just negs and stuff. She was super flirty we both went away at the same time and she wanted me to drive down and visit her but i couldn't.

Some of our texts over this period directly hinted at sex the next time we met, Which i'm not convinced is a good thing, shit like "oh you couldn't handle me babe"

I didn't see her for a while then i invited her to a concert, i didn't pay for her or anything. We ended up sharing a room, i got as far as massaging her topless and a kiss goodnight but i didn't get any IOI's so i decided to freeze her out being the first to break away from the kiss.

The whole concert i got mixed IOI's like hand holding but no squeezing that sort of thing. When we got home she gave me the LJBF over text so i'm confused as to how i possibly conveyed AFC friend zone behaviour.

also she said that she just got out of a bad relationship if that helps. She is a HB 8.

What did i do wrong?

Why did you freez her out when you were kissing? only do that with last minute resistance, seams to me you screwd yourself there.

Massaging her topless seams like an IOI to me.....why not escelate even more?
Or ask her to massage you than go from there.

I gotta agree with Mapex on this one. I think wat it was was that when u got to the point where u were massaging her topless, you definately should've escalated more. A good guidline for this is the vin dicarlo escalation ramp, its good for f-closing and stuff.

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She kept giving me shit like she was tired and i just felt she wasn't really responding much. It was more of a kiss goodnight then a make out and i guess i just got shitty that she wasn't giving me any attention back so i broke away first. the whole thing just felt one-sided.

but i get what you are saying i should have just escalated. I'll know for next time.

Thanks guys

cheers.

kasabi,

your shit always blows my mind!

as in, expands it to new levels!

thanks... that was a good read.