You been there..... you enter a set perfectly, target is very friendly, shows some IOS, you goof, talk, high 5s, non sexual kino doing everything right and when I finally reveal intent to hit, or start using double meaning in a funny way, or give her sexy comment and (NOT 1 hour later no)...

.....the girl lets that get to her head so she suddenly feels empowered and the unspoken dynamics change and she now feels like the shit because of a little attention and a weird tension sets in and no matter what I say now the girl may act too cool for school.

This has happened to me during 4 some road trips, 4-6 people back patio parties, of course at clubs, or during day picks at mall.

So, I am always wanting to turn things back around so that they are balanced and I event want to turn it around so she chases me.

Push and Pull! Give her a little compliment and then just as quickly put her down or visa versa. The key is to keep her off balance! Keeps her ego in check.

Also use what they call negative space. When you say something and make her laugh, go quiet for a bit and just look past her, like your looking at something in the distance behind her. Itll make her think shes boring you and she'll try and to win back your attention.

At the moment you might be running your lines but your just two people hanging out, having fun. When you put your interest out there youre giving her the upper hand because she hasnt put herself out there yet. Need to make her actively want you, not just think this guys cool and funny, before you let her know you want her.

well, I seem to be terrible at getting them to like me/get hooked on me.....even though I can be very funny and real

Actually, let me elaborate here...


-AFC Adam method says to Break Rapport to send signal you mean business.....

-If I say, you're sexy when you laugh....

or anything that indicates interest directly in a subtle manner....

is that fucking me up?