Hey guys,

So, I'm fairly new to the community, but seem to be picking it up pretty fast.

Could use some advice with this one tho. We've gone out twice, both times lots of attraction and make out.

Date 1; we met up for a drink, we end up getting wasted...she's to drunk to push a close...we spent the night together tho.

Date 2; movie and wine, but she throws up ASD that I couldn't get past saying, "I never do that...we just met...I don't want to start a relationship that way." etc. I get that I probably just need to keep building comfort.

So now I'm looking at date 3 and its her birthday. Too serious too quick if you ask me, but its her idea that I celebrate with her. Birthdays I've found, can kill a lot of relationships.

Any advice would be most appreciated.

Thanks.
-J

Im going to keep this brief because I posted a longer version of this somewhere (wish I could find the link for you)

When she says "I don't do that etc." she is really looking for you to assure her that you don't think she's a slut.

I would say "Whoah, I didn't mean to make you feel slutty or anything. I personally don't judge women in that way. I mean, sometimes things are just right."

or Funnier "Wait a second. Now you are just being rude. I mean your basically saying it's not okay to be slut and AS A SLUT I think that is extremely prejudice *giggle*. Really... you hurt my feeling (no plural). I think this calls for make up sex."

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Haha...perfect.

Thanks man.