i mean what a dos and dont of an alpha men,example lead the girl,dont be needy etc etc since its easier for me to know the do and donts without reading too many post...i hope all the PUA here can help me..thank you.

Google search "alpha male traits"

Basically you need to have straight body posture. Relaxed and broad shoulders. Take up as much space as you can.

When talking with someone you want to maintain eye contact. Dont figit, alpha males are comfortable in any situation.

oh sorry i mean as in personality wise...

I posted this elsewhere, but it should help you.

There are behaviors that are considered attractive to most females and those are the ones that you should try to maximize in yourself. These are the ALPHA MALE qualities that you would want to emulate.

I will list some of them:
1) Being a leader (controlling outcomes, and conversational and mental frames)
2) Being socially intelligent (and intelligent generally with facts and the like)
3) Showing that you are pre-selected by women (being around women or speaking of them and being comfortable around them)
4) Showing that you are not needy (you have options and it is nothing if you lose this TGT)
5) Proving that you take care of yourself (you dress well and smell good, etc)
6) Proving that you are socially in-demand (people want to be around you and like your company)
7) Being tough (you do not take shit from people and you are ready to fight if the need arises)

These are just some from the top of my head. Look around at guys you know who have game (or were able to seduce a women). You will notice that they have the ability to use these points (and others I may have missed because I am trying to be brief) to their advantage.

Learn to calibrate these attributes into your life and success will follow, Good luck man!!!

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thanks bro,all that helps but got question.if a girl piss me off or says something i dont like,when she apologize should i say its cool i forgive u or say as long as it doesnt happen again? which is better or is there better ways to reply

"Well since you apologised I will only deduct 2 points, next time though you're gonna be in trouble! "

Its all about how you say it... she is going to feel more comfy if you joke around with her about it. With that being said I would go with your second option, just make it fun. Shit you could tell her she is going to get a light spanking next time.

@Bones, I hope you are not really going around giving people negative points for stupid non-consequential statements. That would seem rather harsh and unnecessary. But to say something about what you stated, I completely agree with two ideas you mentioned: 1) that it is about HOW you say WHAT you say more than what you say; and 2) that you should be carefree and joking with your game.

You cannot take yourself serious. When the TGT does something that you do not like, it really depends how much do you not like it. Like if she says you are a fag, then set her straight by saying something like "Im a fag that would fuck you to sleep" (with a smile on your face). As long as you show that you are not affected negatively by what she says to you (showing her that she cannot hurt you because you are not needy), you will be okay.

The best way that I have noticed to deal with her shit-tests (that is what females do to test how much of a man you are), is to ignore it. They want you to respond. But when you ignore the comment, they think, wow this guy is different because he is unaffected by what I do/say to him.

But that is not to say you simply ignore everything. There are somethings you should not put up with. Even in those times, however, you need to keep your composure and relax. At most times, a simple smile with a light rebuttal and then ignoring the statement works marvels!!!

Try it...

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I tried once... came off as waaaay to cocky. It was how I said it though, not as much what I said. (As dumb as it was)

It is a simple calibration issue with you then. You need to learn how to show your vulnerabilities so that you do not come off as so cocky and untouchable (even fake). So joke about yourself and you will notice that they will also soften up to you....

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this is where my main problem is most of the time, i do always be THE MAN,always leading and being cocky and funny..teasing and all but when it comes to test im a bit slow,sometimes hours after then i would realize i answered her wrong as in a non PUA way...