hi guys ! i would like to introduce myself, I am 32 years old guy and i am from the czech republic. I have decided to join this cominity because I really want to do a little better with women.

The reality is , that I was never being able to approach a woman during the day or during the night ...well I have made a very few approaches in my life when i was drunked at a bar or at a club and yet, they were so cold and unappealing , no wonder i was rejected in all the cases.

So i really need some help since being lonely whole life really sucks...
my goal is not become a pick up artist , i would just like to get to the point when i can talk with women without being nervous, and find a girlfriend for life.

Do I have to go through a tones of rejections untill i succeed ?

Hi man,

Welcome, a lot of guys are in the same situation as you, you want to meet a girl and desperately. In terms of pickup artists methods this is not a good start. You are putting way to much pressure on yourself for when you get a possible chance to talk to a girl.

It is known as AA (Approach Anxiety), it is the firts obstacle for anyone wanting to chat a girl up. This is a good thing, as it means their is a lot of material about it lol

Search the forum section entitled Approaching to get started and get more help.

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"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

yeas i know ...i have read every single article about AA that you can encounter on the internet, it still dont make me go out and do things...

what do you think about using some drugs to feel less nervous such as weed or sth like that ?

does anyone have experience with taking some kind of drug to relief the presure ?

It is like this for about 99% of the community when they first start out, some people have a natural ability for PU and learn very quick.

I would say it is really hard to give you any advice that is individual to you because I do not know enought about you, what you do in an normal day?, how old are you?, have you ever had a girlfriend/s?, what things do you think are holding you back i.e. issues about looks, sound of vioce, no friends etc?

If you answer them honsetly then not only have you got something to work with but people can help you more accurately.

About doind weed or alcohol, it may increase your confidence but not only would the girls realise that you are mashed but you become reliant on doing it everytime you need to talk to a girl - fact!

Doing something over and over and over means that it becomes your natural behaviour as well as you imrpving at that specific skill over time.

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"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

this is what makes me really frustrated


becasue i know what it is to practise some skill untill you succeed
I am trick shot artist , not pick-ip artist (check out my website)


When i imagine what it took me being able to do properly masse shots, i am terrified by the idea that that much attempts would get me to finding a partner
through approaches