so i am definately an AFC no doubt about it so i really need some help with this coffee dat i have coming up. im going out for coffee with a girl i havent seen or heard from in about 10 years.

Coffee dates always seem kind a cliche but im stuck with it now. so i was wondering if you could give me some tips how to game her leading into possible relationship in the future? or atleast into a second date where i could escalate?

Take up a lot of space. Be Cocky/Funny. Don't be predictable. Don't answer her questions directly. If possible read Double Your Dating before you go. That's where all this shit came from and I think DD's style is perfect for coffee dates.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Make it more fun than just a coffee date. You're right thats cliche and every other guy just gets coffee too. You have to be more fun and spontaneuos than the rest of guys out there.

Get coffee and then go to a park, museum, or artshow. Get the idea though? Be more fun than the last guy who got coffee with her. If she says "I just thought we were doing coffee" respond with something that conveys that you are fun.

Jits has a lot of good points for how to act on the date too. The key is too be comfortable with yourself and the situation. She will pick up on this and enjoy herself even more.

Man, that is some quality out of the box thinking! I think I just learned a way to rid myself of boring ass coffee dates for good! thanks.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Women just love to have fun. It keeps them interested and interest keeps them locked into you.