Ok when me and my girl first started seeing each other we were on each other all the time, griding, blowjobs etc.

Now she never used to cuddle her ex but she loves cuddling me and its come to the stage where she cuddles more then anything now, i try getting her turned on but it doesn't seem to be working, we barely do anything unless shes drunk then i get my treat .

I shagged her for the first time 2 weeks ago and we haven't shagged since, we are closer then ever but i think she needs to be turned on more.

Any advice you guys can give me some methods that you use to turn on girls?

Cheers

serious props on the thread title, man. funny as hell!

now to the topic. if she refuses to see you as a sexual being, make sure she sees her friends or other women seeing you as a sexual being.

interesting to see how she would respond then. i would start flirting with other girls if my gf wasn't giving it up.

if she has a problem with it, remind her that she is dating a man (with a penis), not a castrated eunich.

Dude, just stop cuddling with her.. Only cuddle when she puts out simple. Tell her " Not in the mood to cuddle today" or anything. When she gives you what you want you reward her.

Next are you even trying anything? Like attempting to finger her, kiss her neck, stick your tongue into her ears, grabb her ass all while cuddling? Be a bit aggressive, she obviously isn't being the aggressor. Take charge

I've tried being aggressive, i've tried going in softly. Sucking on her neck used to work but now it just tickles her which is annoying as hell. I've tried being rough and being gentle, i tried biting and licking her ear which dont work, try fingering her but shes never in the mood.

I need some turning on advice lol.

bukkake porn?

Maybe you just need a new girlfriend

Honestly bro you may just have to get better in bed. If you were banging her soul to the after life Everytime you have sex with her she'd be jumping up to do it again. Ever hear of having a girl dick whipped? I'm sure if Mandingo came by and gave her a go she'd wanna do more than just cuddle. You following?

also, you could try not asking, and just start doing. i don't mean sexual assault of course.

but you said you cuddle, and snuggle, and ask, and try (weakly) to initiate.

do you have any idea how many women actually WANT to be dominated?

have you ever carried her into the bedroom, said "i am going to fuck the daylights out of you", paddled her ass, and then proceeded to pound her senseless.

i bet anything, she wants to be dominated. WAY MORE COMMON than you think.

trust me, i just dated a feminist who wanted to be spanked and degraded, lol.