first she's not one of a kind..
i'm new at this but now have realized that you'll find someone that's close to her or even better, so get rid of that kind of thinking (i did)
and second
here's an article i found on boyfriend destroying, maybe it will help you
Credit goes to ZEBRA
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This technique is advanced and is such because it is based on a solid understanding of VALUE and COMPLIANCE and how to build and achieve this in seduction CONSISTENTLY. If you cannot do this, you probably WON’T be able to use this to your fullest advantage.
This is based on the idea to gain COMPLIANCE you must first show VALUE. In this case we build solid VALUE in order to not only gain compliance in the woman but to also make her feel PANGS OF LOSS when she loses this VALUE in her life.
Similarly, this is akin to fractionalisation which is where you progressively take something someone finds pleasurable in order to get them to fully appreciate the desired outcome or object more when it is acquired again.
This technique has four stages:
1. The false breakup.
2. The reconciliation.
3. The statement.
4. The steal.
This technique also utilises major false disqualifications and compliance loops in order for this work, which will be explained in more detail later on during this post.
The false breakup:
You need to:
• Built serious value and attraction in the girl.
• Let her know you aren’t interested in being friends.
• Do not bend to her frame of just “being friends”.
• Tell her “the philosophy”.
I’m not telling how to build attraction and value because as I said this is for serious PUAs who are advanced into this, so I will begin by explaining how you tell her you aren’t interested in being friends.
Stage One: Tell her you only ever DATE a girl you like.
“You know baby, I don’t ever normally be friends with a girl who I can’t have. It’s like settling for second best like, oh so now I can’t have you, I might as well just be your friend. In my life I can’t accept second best.”
She will probably come up with some bullshit like:
“So your saying you don’t want to be friends with me?!”
But YOU are the PUA, so now you do this!
“It’s not that I’m not going to be civil to you, not like I’m going to be a prick to you or anything now, it’s just that I don’t settle for second best in my life. If I can’t be with you, I don’t want to hang around and feel depressed over it. You know what I mean, when creepy guys hang on to old crushes for ages, only does them more harm than good. I know you don’t like what I’m saying, but it’s just the way it is.”
DO NOT BREAK FROM THIS FRAME.
SHE WILL ASK YOU TIME AND TIME AGAIN, WHY CANT WE BE FRIENDS AND I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU MEAN ETC, DO NOT REPEAT YOURSELF MORE THAN TWICE.
This is where things become more difficult, you need to be firm with her but gentle also. This is hurtful to her because she is feeling upset that she is seemingly losing something with some great VALUE in her life, which is where the FRACTIONILISATION comes into this technique.
“So, now that I’ve told you this, I’m just going to go take a break some place, clear my head out and have a think. I’ll definitely speak to you another time.”
Women do CRAVE emotional stimulation, both NEGATIVE and POSITIVE which is what you have delivered here. Your giving her an emotional roller coaster ride here which will make her VERY attracted.
The most EVIL part of this is for a period of time, she is going to associate being with her boyfriend to losing out on you, which is wicked if you think about it, meaning she is thinking and feeling negative around her boyfriend! Associating negative feelings to him, sowing the seeds of your evil work, I love it!
“I’m like this because I used to be the kind of person who really did hold the flame for someone for a very long time, it caused me to feel bad in the long run and I wasn’t very happy. So from that day onwards I try and keep this philosophy to ensure that I stay happy and have a good romantic life. Surely you can see where I’m coming from here babe? I am the person who is like a butterfly catcher in a field, patiently waiting for a butterfly to fly onto his open hand so I can admire the beauty. When she does land on my hand, I am fascinated and in love, but when she leaves I feel upset but I walk further into the garden confident another butterfly will feel safe enough to land on my hand. Do you see where I’m coming from? That’s my philosophy, I don’t tell very many people that baby...”
This is very effective, you’re showing your vulnerable sides to a woman plus you are telling her secrets about you, which IGNITE one powerful instinct in women:
THE MOTHERING / NUTURING INSTINCT.
Stage one roundup!
YOU HAVE DEMONSTRATED SERIOUS SHIT HERE GUYS, YOU BASICALLY SHOW THAT YOU HAVE ZERO NEEDINESS BECAUSE YOU ARE DROPPING A GIRL FROM YOUR LIFE, YOU SHOW THAT YOU ARE THE CHOOSER AND LIVE IN A STRONG REALITY, YOU ALSO DELIVER A MASSIVE FALSE DISQUALIFIER, I CAN GUARANTEE YOU THAT SHE WILL BE THINKING OF YOU.
AFTER STAGE ONE OF THE ZMBD IS COMPLETE (ZEBRA METHOD BOYFRIEND DESTROYER) IS COMPLETE YOU MUST LEAVE THE GIRL FOR AT LEAST 10 HOURS TO ONE DAY TO LET HER SIMMER ON THESE MASSIVE FEELINGS YOU HAVE EVOKED IN HER.
Stage two: Reconciliation:
Preferably over the phone or in SMS:
“You know babe, I’ve been sitting at home and all I can think about is you. Seriously, my mind won’t quit. I’m thinking that maybe my philosophy can’t always be right...”
“I’m willing to change my philosophy JUST THIS ONCE. I think... Oh my God, I NEVER do this. I don’t quite know what it is about you, but I reserve the right to HIT ON YOU whenever and however I like! ”
This is effective because you are showing:
1. Weakness for her after such a STRONG and MASCULINE first stage which gives her a COMPLETELY different perspective from the last time you spoke to her. She is feeling that emotional rollercoaster again.
2. Strong, non-needy desire for women is very seductive.
“I’m telling you this though girl, I’m going to be way too seductive to be a proper friend to you, we will be more like secret lovers! Ha! Let’s go on a romantic weekend, you pick the place! ?”
This is the THIRD STAGE and it’s “the statement” which is where you state that you will begin talking to her and restarting that relationship you previously had, BUT you have no intentions of being her friend.
The way to do this with LEAST resistance is to ROLE PLAY this out. Make a big joke of it and PRETEND you are going on wacky romantic little adventures with her. Feel free to act it out and go nuts, she will love it. The key is to ROLE PLAY things that insinuate you are lovers not friends.
The EVIL thing is, your mind doesn’t know the difference between KINO from ROLE PLAY and KINO from ACTUAL ROMANTIC SITUATIONS and it will cause the same feelings to be evoked.
Example:
“You know, we are secret... low down... DIRTY lovers you know! ”
*Grabs her and hugs her”
“OMG, was that your boyfriend over there?!”
“Quick lets hide!!”
*Man handles her*
“Phew that was close, were so in love aren’t we ”
All said in a jokey manner you can surely see why this is so brutally effective at DESTROYING competition from other guys.
Can her boyfriend lead her through such STRONG emotions? I doubt it, she will be ADDICTED to you with this shit, it’s genuinely the MOST POWERFUL method of boyfriend destroying I’ve encountered.
Stage four: The steal.
The steal is basically ESCALATION.
You need to escalate things and you do this by slowly AMPING UP the Kino in your ROLE PLAYS.
Make things progressively more and more intimate, hold hands and do the things boyfriends and girlfriends do, hug, kiss on the cheek, and make her feel so damn sexy with you she can’t HELP but LOVE you.
This however is the MASTERPIECE of the whole technique:
When the girl brings up being TORN between you and her boyfriend, this is a KILLER thing to say and makes her MASSIVELY attracted:
“You know what; I have the same problem in the past. All I can say to you babe is follow your heart. Whatever your heart tells you to do *point to self* then you really should go for. I believe that you know the answer deep down; you just have to be brave and reach out and get it. Now come here, I need a hug! ”
Guys, good luck and thanks for reading, you know have the WORLDS most powerful boyfriend destroying technique ever invented.
I’m not even joking,
Zebra!