HI!

Fella AFCs, and PUA,
I am from India .

I an AFC, wanting to be a PUA.

My GF Left me last month. Because i was being a wussy.

Initially i was really Strong in our relationship. But to respect her , to be a good guy and in the end to protect our relationship , i did many mistakes.
She dint help matters.

I agree on My Part and it was partially my mistake.
But i dint espect shell dump me .
She had changed a lot and i had forgiven her many times.
But she dint.

I am angry and Frustrated.

And want to channel all my anger towards becoming better than i was before.
Finding Indian Babes(IB) more beautiful than she was.
Better than she was.

Ill never again compromise in my life like i did with her.

I made a mistake , i learnt a lot. Haven been able to move on yet.

But i have begun The Game.
Lets Play

Your mind is postitive, thats the 1st step. Use all your energy into becoming better and youll be great.

I have read through a few books , but il really appreciate all your suggestions.

I have read through a few books.
I have done sarging twice. More on it in the coming posts.


My AIM:
1) Create an Mysterious, sophisticated(aka James Bond)aura around me
2) To easily read what women are trying to convey(Reading between the line)
and come up with a funny an cocky answer for each one.
3) To improve my understanding of myself, learn self control, and to understand
and react appropriately in most of the situation.
4) To bed IB(8-10)** and to find a lady for long term realtionship if possible (lol).
and in the process: become an accomplised PUA

**IB : Indian Beauty..

So After the break up i analysed myself.

Here is what came out.
1) I was being a wussy.
2) I was afraid always that ill loose her.
3) Let her pass all the shit test without punishing her.
4) I became FAT( 90 KG, for 5.8' height ) i.e i am 15 kilos more.
5) I have a reducing hairline. i.e My hair is falling. Does it matter.
6) Dont have much of a style sense.
Although always with a shirt and jeans and am decently dressed.
7) Eye contact is bad. Have to work on my body language.
I react too Soon and get angry too soon.

OK Now now enough of self criticism

Some good points.
1) I forgave her for being a bitch at times.
And I am proud i did it. If she dint understand , its her lose.
2) I don give up. Ill achieve a PUA Status.
I gave up on her , when i realized she was not worth it after she dumped me.
3) I have started taking remedial action.
Joined swimming , will start going to gym from today.
4) I am a creative person.

Lol, i cant come up with some good point.

Anyways. ill post my sarging experience.. Please comment on my sort commings and how i can Improve on it.

@bandito69 Hi!
Welcome to my journey .

Thanks for being my mate.

I have sarged for 3 days nows ..

Reporting
DAY 1 :

Opened 4 IB(Indian babe)

Bus Stop (IB6) ( Dollars Colony, Bangalore) :

ME: HI! How do you go to Forum Mall. Which bus to take .

IB6: Take a bus to bla bla bla..

ME: whats the frequency of the bus.

IB6: 5 min... bla bla..

She was not showing great interest.
I asked her where she is going. and all..
Not much interest shown by her..




2nd in a book store (Cross-Word ,Near Brigade, Bangalore) (IB7)

Tried to open.

ME : HI! Which E-learning CD is good for children?
IB : I dont know.
Lol Over...


3rd girl:
Met in CCD coffee shop in brigade.
Was Nervous
Started with
Was hesitant.
I bet you Rs. 500 ($10)
if you pull the finger out of the finger lock trick.

It worked, got some kino trying to get her finger lock
Couldn do much after that.

After the game she suddenly got upset lol.

4th
Tried the same trick with the waitress(IB3) there in the cafe.
She enjoyed it . And laughed a lot.


Learnings:
1) Was happy could open the set.
2) Very less eye contact.
3) Speak Very Fast.
4) AA in abundance
5) Was leaning a lot sign of less confidence.


To-do:
1) Maintain Eye contact more.
2) Try to come up with funny and cocky comment to make her smile.
3) Work on Body Language
4) Approach more

Any suggestions are welcome.
I need to grow and i need your help

DAY 2 :

6.25 pm:

Went to a coffee shop(CCD, Brigade road) not much happening..
mostly couple .. 3 couples ..
Later a 2 set joined in but nothing to speak about..

Feeling real AA. A terrifying fear from within..

There is this IB7(Indian Babe) with her boy friend,

She was frequently looking at me , and having a eye contact..
Was it because i was looking at her .. but again if she was feeling odd she could have said it to her boy friend..
Her arms were closed was she showing it to me or was it for his boy friend??


Couldn do much .. So left and moved on.


Went to a book Store. not much a success there..
Spoke to one . but nothing to write about.

End of day 2. Bad day here...

Learnings:
1) Have to work on my AA..
2) Eye contact.


To do:
1) Have started swimming regularly, should join jym too. and work on my tummy.
2) Work on the way i dress or my collection. Its decent , but could do with some good fitting cloth.. ( Can you suggest some??)
3) Speak Slowly



Some crazy thought:
Could have left my number in a tissue paper for the girl just in case if she wanted to contact me. lol....

DAY 3:

Contacted a local Person in bangalore to sarge with.
His name is Riaz. He is from kerela.
Anybody in bangalore interested contact me @ mahindra.globalnet[at]gmail


We Met at Forum Mall:

Spoke to each other..
He is working with a BPO company..

so, we go Sarging together

Lots of fear inside.

I open 3 sets . He doesn even open one.
He looks smart... but his sticking point is AA,

1st lady: (IB6( Was married i suppose) )

ME: Hi! What should i buy. you know i leave alone and need quick breakfast early morning.
IB: (Looking at me in a weird way, as in ill eat her) What ever you want
ME: I really dont know, Can you suggest something .
IB: Take cornflakes or something.. i dont know.

And she walks off.

2nd Lady:( IB5 , Getting her bill done at the counter)
Miss the 1st opportunity to talk

ME: Hi! What good fast food you'd suggest for morning breakfast.
IB5: I dont know.

She looked with this disgusting face .. as if i ate her.. (Damn why do all the ladies look to me like this.)

3rd lady: IB6( short in hight , met her at Westside cloth store)
ME: Hi! Can you suggest something for my sister.
She is of your hight i dont know what to take for her, a S or an M routine)
IB: Take an S.
ME: Ok what do you suggest
IB: Take this maybe and this etc..
ME: no no, ok what do you what would you have taken.
IB: I liked this one , etc etc..

Than we separated..
Asked the sales lady what to take...
bla bla bla

Than IB was still around.. Pushed my luck..
Nothing came out..
She was just being nice.

Asked my Wing What i could work on.

Learning:
1) I was Leaning a bit too much..( sign of neediness)
2) Bad I contact.
3) Dint feel Confident
4) Spoke too Fast

To do:
1) Work on inner game
2) Work on fitness
3) Come up with a line to Start opening conversation.

Please suggest things. I need to work on it.

I see your worse enemy is AA.

To get rid of it, you should start thinking that rejection is part of life, so the best way to do it is to have one or two days of blow-off openers.

Openers super-weird that are made on purpose to get rejected!

But they'll boost up your confidence!

Like those:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kH9-6PgBrR0[/youtube]

DAY 4

Interacted with 5 IB(Indian babes)

It took me 4-5 hours to approach 5 girls,

Its was real difficult. AA was killing me.

1st girl:
Me: asked for direction
she told and moved on.

2nd a 3set:
Me: Hi! Suggest me something good to eat.
They were giggling..
Eye contact was good..
they said something...
It was over quick..

3rd a 3-set:
Asked for direction ...
they was bla bla..
My position was awkward..


4th Set (IB7):
was in WestSide(clothing store) , forum mall
In women section..

ME: Hi! suggest me some dress..
(I fumbled..) i mean for my sister..
Was bending down.
not great eye contact.
IB: I am not a salesgirl here, in an amusing way .

No reaction and i ejected.


5th Girl(IB7):
Me: hi!(with a smile)
IB: looked at me without saying anything.
Me: Where is rebook store?
IB: go straight......
Me: oh great... some more questions..
IB: comfortably answering..
(her boy friend steps in )
i just look at her and eject out( showed no care for her bf)


Learnings:
1) My eye contact is improving everyday.
2) Body language is improving.
3) I still have AA
4) Openers are not great and i am not able to take
the conversation to any further.
5) I am 15-20kgs fat (itll take 2-3 months to work this out)
6) My voice is very fast and not clear at times.


TO-DO:
1) Work on eye contact
2) Stand straight be more comfortable.
3) Dont worry about getting rejected
4) Start going to jym (i go swimming regularly)
5) work on voice tone and modality.

Suggestion needed:
1) What cloths to were?
I am not great at it
I usually were a shirt with jeans
Need style tips
2) Suggest some Openers and how to take the conversation forward.
3) I want to be cocky and funny yet not coming across as cheeky.
4) what are the things i should do to keep my body fit.
5) How to work on voice tone

@ fuckingitalian.

Ill try that once in 7th day..
I am really still afraid .

I did much better in day 5 .
Did 10 openers.

Ill start doing direct and crazy openers once i go to field for a few more days

Valentine DAY Field Report :

Today when i went in to Forum Mall , i had no intension to sarge .
Infact i though ill not even approach today.
Had my wingman Riaz with me. Met him on day 3

So, reached forum at 6.30
Riaz Suggested me an opener :" where is the HBSC SPAM?"


Initially was nervous.
But i found out i wasnt.

Because of the attitude today , i was a bit laid back. and it was easier to approach.

Did 5 set in 10 min.

Eye contact was much better .
Body was straighter, not comfortable yet though.
Was approaching from side.

One thing i was doing is acting as if i was looking for it .. moving around and as if looking for it . That meant i dint know how to take it forward.


For the next 5 , I did a "Suggest me a few good dine in restaurant?"

Set 6 and 7:
Suggested me KFC or McD
ME: Na i dont take Junk Food, suggest me some proper dine in options.

They: Ok go to this restaurant. bla bla bal..
Not much talk there.

Did 9 inside the mall

Than was about to leave When i pushed my Wingman to a 2-set.
He chickened out.

SO i gathered the confidence and went straight to them

Set 10:


1 was IB4 the other was IB7
Me: HI!
IB4: Looked at me and dint react much
IB7: Looked but was showing attitude.
Decide to ignore IB7
Looked into IB4s Eyes.
Body posture was straight , facing IB4

Some talks..

Couldn take it forward.
Said thank you and moved on.


Learnings:
1) When i am calm i can easily approach.
2) Youll be rejected ,start accepting it.
3) I am not able to start involving them in a conversation.
4) Ladies are helpful and are usually not that rude, if you know how to approach.
5) My Body Language and eye contact is improving.

TODO :
1) Learn to continue the conversation. ( Need Feedback)
2) Work on Body language to cone across as relaxed and chilled.
3) Learn to convey no interest in her , dont ogle. Feel relaxed.
4) Now try to push as much as i can to come near N-Close.


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DAY 6 :

I did a #close, Yeh Post to come soon .


Please comment on previous post and advice to help me improve.

Thank you all

Illusionist, not to be rude, but in your post there is not enought material to make a good review or suggestions...

Maybe it's also because the way you write english is kinda of extremely-simple and without detailed description.

What I can say from the previous posts is that you need to personalize the discussion.

For example, when you ask where a good restaurant is, you can also ask "Are you from here?", "Do you often go out for dinner in restaurant?" and other personal questions to the girls.

Asking personal questions builds up comfort. If they start asking you personal questions back, it's a pretty clear IOI.

The next step would be to try to connect with them, find something in common. If she says "Yes I usually go out for dinner in this Greek restaurant" you can reply "Oh my god, I love Greek food! Souvlaki, pita, rakomelo. Wha's your favourite greek food?"

For example, what job do you do? Find an opener more or less connected to your job and try to bring the discussion to it. Try to find similarities.

You have to be talkative and funny! You have to convey confidence and bravado. Think about giving the girl a nice 5 minute conversation! Don't think about "number closing, sarging, openers, cocky and funny", just think about giving the girl some nice conversational topics.

Smile! Study body language and convey comfort with you body language! Dont approach from behind! Make eye contact! Make a false time constraint!

How many of those thing are you doing? I dont know... from your posts is not clear...

Have a nice sarging!

P.S. I also found that there are basicly three conversational topics that girls basicly LOVE to speak about and almost can't shut up... Those are shopping/gift, travels and relatonships. Try to find an opener that can switch to one of those topics... Like "I have to find a good restaurant because I want to pay a dinner to this two very close friends of mine, they're in a relationship for 5 years and this would be my gift for anniversary". From here you can switch to relationship topic like "5 years! It it a lot! They're only 22! What do you think about that?". Or you can switch to gift shopping like "Do you think that dinner is a good idea? I have a 100$ budget for them. Do you have some suggestion for an alternative girfts?"

@Fucking Italian

I would love to post in more detail ,
What kind of detail are you looking at.
I try to put as much detail as i can.

Can you explain, What other things are you looking at?
What other things can i put in?

And yes you are right i need to personalized more and more. And yes again ill try to give her 5 entertaining min rather than anything else.
Ill work on the tips you gave me.

Thanks for helping me be a better person,
someday ill love to treat you for this .