Hey guys whats up?? I'm new to the site and to the game, so any help would be greatly appreciated. I've known this chick for a long time and she just broke up w/ her boyfriend. Well we have been friends for a long time like I said and one night I was texting her and she confessed that she has had a thing for me for awhile, I was shocked but started to throw in some C+F plus push pull and that seemed to work.

Now to the problem...I've asked her out a couple times and she has bailed on me with some lame excuse, I got her to go out with me one time to the mall but she invited one of her friends. We went and had a good time but I'm confused at her ways.

I tried freezing her out the other day and she texted me asking if she has done something wrong. I tottally called her out on all her bullshit and said I wasn't going to put up with it. She said to be honest with me that she was scared to hang out with me because she knows that she would get attached to me and she doesn't want to get into another relationship right now. She also said that she has been thinking about me a lot lately and when I asked her what she wanted she said "For Now, Just Friends", is all this just bullshit?? I do like this girl and wouldn't mind if this lead into a relationship but I am not down with getting played like a sucker either. Any advise or opinions on this matter would be welcome! Thanks in advance guys!!

She's either involved with, or got her eye on somebody else.

You should too.

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first off it sounds like the way you've been calling her and asking her out was a bit AFCish.. but she is interested and whether you want her as your girl or even just a rebound then you can have her.

What you need to do is confirm her thoughts and feelings. So instead of calling out all the bullshit she's been pulling sympathize with her. Tell her you understand that she doesn't want a relationship but you're just there to make her feel good and help her through the hard times... you can always jump into LJBF zone to reel a girl in and then pop out of that zone as long as you keep up the sexual tension.

She said she doesn't want to hang out with you because she knows she'll feel something.. so make her want to hang out with you just to hang out... then once you hang out slowly raise the buying temperature until she can't stand it.

Thanks for the advice guys. She did tell me that she is busy this weekend with mid terms but she would be free all next week, so we'll see. I know, me asking her out was mega AFC!! If she bails on me this time, I'm done, plenty more woman to have. Thanks again guys!!!