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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 5:16 am 
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I have been spending allot of time with a girl lately (I've been practicing NLP and openers on her without telling her what I've been reading); I think she is starting to dig me..

SHE IS: HB 8.5 but cool as fuck so thats +2; 10.5

HER BF: lives two hours north in LA... and will continue to live there for AT LEAST another 2 yrs for his MS degree.

I AM: not sure if I am willing to lose her friendship. As we all know, if you love something, you have to be willing to lose it....

So even if I do decide to risk losing her, does this fall within the ethics of a PUA????

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I think I missed the PUA ethics course.

PUA is about getting girls, and lately about new agey self improvement. Ethics are a personal decision, whether you want to accept the bro code, or consider it to be her decision is your problem.

You'll get plenty of different opinions on here, so what really counts is how well you'll sleep at night. Presumably much better with a HB10.5 next to you?
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I have been spending allot of time with a girl lately (I've been practicing NLP and openers on her without telling her what I've been reading); I think she is starting to dig me..

SHE IS: HB 8.5 but cool as fuck so thats +2; 10.5

HER BF: lives two hours north in LA... and will continue to live there for AT LEAST another 2 yrs for his MS degree.

I AM: not sure if I am willing to lose her friendship. As we all know, if you love something, you have to be willing to lose it....

So even if I do decide to risk losing her, does this fall within the ethics of a PUA????

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Steal her. If you would feel bad about stealing her away from a guy you don't care about, then gftow and just be bro's with her. If you want her enough that you don't care about ethics, go for it.
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You'll get plenty of different opinions on here, so what really counts is how well you'll sleep at night. Presumably much better with a HB10.5 next to you?
I think you make an excellent point, I'm going for it. The girl literally works 1 level below me, so I need to phrase it correctly.

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Steal her. If you would feel bad about stealing her away from a guy you don't care about, then gftow and just be bro's with her. If you want her enough that you don't care about ethics, go for it.
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I think the GF tow might be better if I can be patient...

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man I have the same issue...Idk what to do. still considering. P.S. in my case bf is right next to her.( I actually aproached when they were together and made friends with the guy...)
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I'd say go for it. But if you have feelings for this girl be careful, if she can cheat on her current BF for you don't be surprised if the same thing happens to you down the road.
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I'd say go for it. But if you have feelings for this girl be careful, if she can cheat on her current BF for you don't be surprised if the same thing happens to you down the road.
On the other hand a 2-hour-away relationship is a PITA. Doesn't make you a cheater if you think better of a long distance LTR.
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