ok so this girl i know wants to go for a job interview wit me this fri. and she asked me to pick her up and go with her. i playfully ask her, what do i get in return for pickin u up, she doesnt really answer.

anyway, we worked in the same place. im the soundguy in the pub, shes the waitress. we call each other 'darling', 'baby' and stuffs like that. but nothing of the 'couple' kind. juz to sweeten the talk i thing. sometimes when i stand at a spot to listen to the sound, she will walk by me sometimes grab and hold my hand, tickle me and stuffs. sometimes i will grab her hand, and she wont let got for a few secs before have to rush off to customers.

what does that all mean??

i wanna know if this fri, i can get her to be at least attracted to me, if possible, more than that.

any tips guys???

they seem like big IOIs to me... She is escalating physically... Dude... Holding you hand and tickling you? Game her... You are a sure winner... I think there is already some attraction there

erm but how do i 'game' her? im sorry im kinda new to this stuffs!! =(. i dont even know what IOI stand for but i noe its sumting the girl does that points to sumting.. hahahaha..

help!! the only stuffs i have are neil's the game and vin's attraction code. and i havent even started reading. jus bought em. but this girl is a lucky break!!

someone help!!

Take control of the situation after work ask her if she would like to go for a drink or something dude you have this one in the bag by the sound of it. All you need to do now is make sure you escalate and whatever you do don’t seem like the friend type the last thing you want is to get in the friend zone and its easily done just keep with the IOI’s and you’ll be fine just take the bull by the horns. IOI ( Indicator of Interest ) just play it cool and be the man

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

ok so what should i NOT do??? i dont wanna do something bad, thinkin its ok when its actually a damn wrong way to approach or escalate or watever the lingo is

You should act like a friend you should act like you want to rip them clothes right off her. Sounds like your doing a good job with these IOI's your getting i think the best thing you could do is ask her to go for a drink with you, not where you work some where diffrent or go do something fun just make it fun. Don't act like you would with your friends like do anything for her be too nice etc...

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

If you really want to score this chick in the bag you must rattle her cage a bit. It honestly seems like she like you as a friend but needs a little extra attention so she flirts with you at work. You would also come in handy for the occasional favor if she needed one( which you just did) being that your such a "nice guy".

Now what you wanna do is tell her the night before over the phone that your not gonna be ableto pick her up for this interview. "Something came up, but I can give you a ride home if you like" that's wen you ask her out for drinks to " celebrate" new jobs.

Also if your focus is "what not to do" that's a sure way to fuck up

I wont write you a step by step manual on what to do; it doesnt seem like your ready for this type of thing anyway. Just have fun and learn from it.

Easy

fuze - i think i will try wat u said. but i will pick her up but not send her home. coz.. actually another girl want to meet me. how do i handle this actually.?!? will jealousy rears its ugly head? is that a good thing?

ap - thankz bro! ive been tryin to rip her clothes off since day 1. of course i nvr show it. hahahaha. will try it.