How to deal with a girl's "best friends"???



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 2:39 am 
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Ok well, i like this girl for awhile now, and i feel like we might be getting somewhere and that MAYBE theres slight chances that it might work out...but the thing whenever i talk to her, maybe ill get at least a good 30 seconds to a few minutes to talk to her until her best friends (girlfriends) just come barging and swarming in on her like a horde of bees and she just forgets about me (its not intentional since she gets side-tracked alot). And i cant see her anywhere else other than school and Mountain Youth Drama coz shes a really busy girl who does alot. Is there anything i can do to like, stop the friggin intrusions by her girlfriends? And i don't wanna hurt their feelings to coz they're kinda best friends of mine to, not as much as hers though. And can someone please tell me what to do if they DO come up, interrupt our conversation and start talking to her coz all i do is freeze up and listen to their conversation coz i don't wanna interrupt and i don't know what to do...help please????


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 3:13 am 
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Hey buddy!
Unless you can control a person's mind, I don't think you can really stop the intrusions.

So your only option is to walk away or to join the conversation.

If her friends come after 30 seconds, then so be it. Don't let this destroy your game. It's just another obstacle to overcome.

You say she forgets about you when her friends come? If so then remind her that you're there.
Ex:
*You've been talking for a minute and her horde comes. She ignores you. It's been 2 minutes since they came.*
Girl horde: *chattering about stupid shit no one cares about*
Me: Really?! That's insane!
*They look at you weird*
Me: what's with all of the staring? Am I that hot?
Random girl: Who are you?
Me: I'm the guy who was talking to Buffy over there before we were so rudely interupted. Who are YOU?
R Girl: I'm her friend Joyce.
Me: Well, it's a pleasure to meet you Joyce.
Then continue to talk to the group, but ONLY flirt with her. You don't even have to talk to her very much, but direct all of your flirting to her. You can banter with everyone else. After a while (Or when they decide to leave), ask your target if you can tell her something and lead her a few feet away. Tell her you think she's really interesting and would like to get to know her better. Ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat with you or something sometime. Then exchange numbers.
MAKE SURE you have a cocky yet laidback funny attitude or this isn't gonna work.

See man, no problem. There are many ways to tackle this. I gave you one example. If you don't like it, try other ones out.

Goodluck buddy!

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 3:14 am 
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Wait! When I say "flirt with only her", I mean flirt with your target. Not Joyce. :P Just wanted to clarify.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:59 pm 
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Or just nicley pull her to one side and say to her friends I'm stealing her away from you for a while then she's all yours. I'm sure her friends will respect that and not intrude until the conversation is over unless they are very immature.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:35 pm 
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Wow, all of your advice is actually working! For example, when they do intrude, i listen in to their conversation and try to join in when i have the chance, and when i do get a chance, i say what i wanna say. And if they do intrude too much, i will pull her over and say im stealing her for a bit. Don't worry i wont wait 2 minutes haha


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