This might be a funny question to ask but,

How do you turn a girl down?

(In a way that you don't hurt the girl and she doesn't go off telling everyone how you suck etc.)

Or, how do you keep a girl, let's say, interested in you even after turning her down?

the key is to let them down gently, and to go full circle and to do it how a chick would do it to a guy... use Cliché bullshit!

Stuff like "Your like the little sister I never had" that ones always a classic, as it shows them your not sexually interested in her anymore and are thinking of her as a family member not a potential girlfriend...

oh dropping the line "You're such a great friend" into the let down is good too...


OR you could just strap on a pair and say something like "I feel like we've grown apart recently, and have felt lately that we don't have the same feelings for each other anymore, we both want something different and what I want we can't acheive together, I think its best if we're still friends because we have such a great connection" Blah blah blah and more bullshit. You're obviously not gonna say "I just wanted to have sex with you and now I've got balls deep into a commitment that I don't want to commit to, coz I like to fuck other chicks" actually that could work if you want them totally off your case but they will tell their friends how much of an asshole you are... ha ha

when I have sex with someone, after if we're talking on the phone or txt, I always mention that I'm not monogamous, so it doesn't set her hopes to high that she will be my girfriend, i always explain, i have multiple relationships and often more than one girlfriend at a time... if u explain it to them first off they are normally pretty cool with it... aslong as they all know about each other! not that they actually should KNOW each other but know their names and what days you see them etc...

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They're playing groupie, so I'm playing rock star...

Okay and now:

What if you've kissed a girl at some party, but don't want any deeper relationship or whatever.

How do you explain that to a girl, and still keep the ''cool guy'' status..

Thanks for helping out

@ Sugar: Or you could say "I like your little sister I've never had."

@ Wielder: If you just made out at a party, chances are that will be that, unless you escalate again. Just don't kino at all and keep your frame non-sexual. Same if girls you have no interest in you chat you up/run after you. If you don't want them, don't string them along (your ego doesn't need it) and run for the friend zone. Meaningful conversation, non-sexual topics, little or no physical contact, definitely no escalation from you. She'll get the message without you having to affirmatively do anything.

What if the girl comes up to you and kisses you or something? You can't just push them away can you? That would come off totally uncool.. right?

If she's that pushy, she can probably handle herself. I'd kiss her and then start gaming other girls. Not the nice thing to do, but she forced your hand

Should you start gaming other girls right in front of her?

Or do you mean, in general just game other girls?

Both?! Don't escalate with her, but I assume she's hot so just go along with it. Then go game other girls, in and out of plain sight.

Just redject her...
Be kind with everyone else except for her!

I'm direct. "I'm not really feeling any chemistry between us." That way I don't have to tell her she looks fat, I couldn't possibly get a woody up for her, etc. It puts it in the realm of mutual attraction, so I'm not framing it as being about her inadequacies.