| 31 Dec'10 - New Years Party - Surielx, L, D and lots of women
1 Jan'11 - Surielx the Egoist - Surielx, J, HB8
Cracov. Magic city. Probably the only one in the world where if you want to travel from point A to point B you need to exit the bus on the second stop, but if you want to travel back from point B to A there are 16 stops on your way.
Me and two of my guys were in the hotel with 1500 students, 6 halls and one dancefloor. It took me like 3 shots to go on the dancefloor and next half an hour to do a warm-up approach. No special openers, just grab her hand and dance, no rejection as far as I remember (this fact only made me even crazier dancer). The attitude was awesome, I approached this way 8 girls before the point I met my love for this night. The best part is - Surielx is progressing. I still remember all the girls' names but the problem occured with matching the name to particular face. Still, progress.
If I can advice you something due to this approach method - at first you always dance "in the circle" with your friends, that's natural. The most relevant thing in here is to focus on your moves, don't look around, let the girls admire you without the fear of being caught. Some practice and you will just feel their stare on you. Focus on your moves, look up and down instead of right and left. If the girl passes by dancing - grab her hand, she wants to be noticed and wants you to approach her. Half an hour of dancing with your buddies and approach an average girl, you want to make first approach to warm up and you want it to be successful to give you confidence. Plus, if you dance with a girl for 2 songs and then leave, the other girls see 3 things: you can dance, you are not a stalker and here is the chance for them since you dance back with your buddies.
D who has zero game and is total AFC danced with.. 10 girls for the whole night! 2 #closes! And two pecks on the neck! Guys, before the party started I wished he successfully approached one girl.
L was tired of the trip and he was 24h on feet so he danced with some girls but really didn't want to make any move forward, the fantasy of purity is making the harvest. But still, he thinks this night was awesome.
Back to the hero of this story. I'm sitting with my buddies by the table when a girl (easily HB8, petit brunette) comes by and looks at me the same way pedobear looks at candies. EC, my smile, she passes by and sits at the end of our table with no human soul in 4 meter radius and is playing with her hair. You know the way that red canvas affects a bull?
Surielx: "Hi, Surielx" (hand drawn, as I want to peck her on the hand)
HB8: "Hi, HB8" (gives me her hand, I take it almost to my lips, reverse both hands and kiss mine. She smiles)
Surielx: "You know you can't look at men this way, it can be dangerous."
HB8: (smile) "What way?"
Surielx: "Like fat child looks at a cheeseburger." (Yes, I said that)
(laugh)
Surielx: "Come with me"
We make a slow procession to the dancefloor, my guys later told me there was no fucking way I made it within two minutes. We danced for two songs (side note: I dance with no more than 2 songs as a first dance with a girl. It is enough to show her my skills and not to repeat the moves then I leave her on high note with "I know where you sit, see you later") and I get back to my table to drink some more. Emboldened with this little success I approach a blonde. It's Stiffler's Mom. I mean, she is maybe 25 but the aura and her whole style (lady I would say, you know what I mean) immediately links her with this character. Some flirty talk later she says she has a challenge for the player like me and points at the lonely girl two tables ahead, she is HB6.5 maybe and looks around with no smile on her face, I think "Easy call, watch out." and approach. Apparently, I forgot that when there is 1500 people at New Year's Party, it is quite possible for the girl to be there with her boyfriend. He was somewhat angry when he returns. Stiffler's Mom tricked me! I lost the bet and a shot so I flirt with her some more, spot the previous HB8 sitting nearby and continue talking to this cheaty beast with a grin on my face. Jealousy plotline, we will test ya! 20 seconds later HB8 brings me a shot, she have easily discovered the best way a girl can win Surielx's attention.
We chat a bit, smile, the Cube, 5 question game (a first girl in my carieer that answered correctly on 4th question. But still lost on the fifth one) and we head back to the dancefloor. Some songs and pictures taken later, we dance on one slower song,
Surielx: "I invented the way of kissing without touching your lips, close your eyes"
Boom! K-close
Surielx: "I think the method doesn't work", she smiles.
some time passes
Surielx: "Hey, I bet that if we land at your place, you wouldn't even feed me"
HB8: "Of course I would, I have manners"
Surielx: "What do you have in the fridge?"
HB8: "Hmmm... cheese, onions, tomatoes, greek salad..."
Surielx: "Ok, salad is fine, invitation accepted"
she smiles, blushing, I know it's ON.
We stayed until like 5am, my friends ejected around 2, her friends a little bit after so we decide to exit. All the way to her place we were joking, flirting, smiling (although I don't clearly remember it) and we go to her apartment. That was funny, she said later that she was sure I will go home after I walked her to her place, but when we are in front of the door I just say "Do you have the keys or should I ring?" (it's 6am), she says she has, "So open".
We are in her room, I lay on the bed, she takes some clothes and says she's back in 5mins. Have you ever had the situation where you have fun all the night, drink one shot after another, have fun again, make this night a legend and then you take one shot after which you don't remember anything? That was 4 shots ago. Waiting for my love to come, Surielx made the most prideful decission in 2011: turned to right side and fell asleep.
I wake up in the morning and see her nearby, wearing cute, beautiful, sexy and shiny H&M outfit but I was lost at this point. I laughed of myself, she gave me a massage and I left on high note (it was difficult in this situation, you can imagine). Don't remember exactly when I took her number but I feel it's not over yet. The funny thing: she gave me nothing to eat.
Afternoon, I take my bag from one friend where I was supposed to sleep and move to another apartment where my other buddies resides, L and D are on the way home and I stay for another night. I tell them a story, get so much laughter and 2 free beers for the ending, I think I deserved it. I call HB8, set up a meeting at 9pm, told her I will be with my friends so she can come with hers. Me and J are 7 minutes late (I love to do that), she's alone, we head to the club and dance the whole time. J exits after an hour and gets back home, we are alone on the dancefloor and this time I am a dancefreak! I can see everyone is looking at me with admiration to my decent dance and to the beautiful girl I am with. At 2am I say "I'm tired, let's get back to your place" and she says we can't because there are some guests from one girl's family. I say "Ok, so come with me" and we head to the apartment I mentioned before.
I don't clearly remember at which point she says she's invited to wedding in four weeks time and I am now invited too. I have to think about it, she didn't give me anything to eat in the morning (huge minus) but she gave me a decent massage (huge plus). On the other hand, at the wedding there will surely be enough eating for me so I think I will accept that. I like her, a lot.
Back to the apartment. I introduce her to everyone and say goodnight, we go to one room and kiss, talk and laugh a lot. I told her I don't want to have sex with her now because I feel we have a connection and don't want to ruin it. And, fellas, it was true! I can say I would clearly have sex with her that night but I didn't want to. After some talk, kisses and laugh we fall asleep. It's been a long time since I spent the whole night with a girl with no sex. It felt good.
In the morning, I made her breakfast and say "Don't remember it next time", she laugh. After that we head the city, eat some more in a restaurant (I payed but "Next time your turn") and walked her to the bus stop. I gave her my necklace ("I think you are not a thief, you will give it back next time we see") and kissed goodbye.
Decent opening of the season 2011 I think. Plus, time bridge well set, I think I will accept. I have never been by the sea in winter, she pays for everything including the tickets, I've had some memorable time with her... Plus, I want my necklace back!
This week a poker night is coming but I will surely go clubbing in the weekend. _________________ An Alpha male cries only when Mufasa dies.
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