Okay, Hey guys... basically this girl i used to know (same age, shorter than me, definitely atleast HB9 - model is on holiday from where she hads moved for the past 3 years. So she invited me over, and i went..)

I get in, hugs etc, she makes me macaroni, then we go and watch the rugby, getting on pretty well, chatting etc. Then we go up to her bedroom and go on facebook discussing girls who are hot etc, she mentions her ex boyfriend who dumped her etc..
She teases me a bit saying i do nothing at home but its mostly good natured.

At this point im very attracted to her, but im worried shes thinking im more or a friend. Im trying to be dominant, not give her straight answers etc and when she told me to shut tp i kinda laughed, which she just called immature...

So then we watch Bruno, with the lights out on her bed, watch through the whole movie then just chill out for a bit, but i dont make a move on her for some reason... like i dont wanna be rejected in her own house like this, so i dont do anything apart from kiss her forehead. Before i had poked her nose and she returned it, but she didnt really escalate after i kissed her on the forehead, maybe i should have? We were lying facing each other pretty close..Then i leave, she shows me to the door, we dont hug or kiss just 'cya' and im gone. Didnt get her number and now im fucking pissed off about not having sex, cos Im still a virgin (15 yrs, i do loads of sport and so well built and good looking..) And she goes in a few days. Shes a very close neighbour and it was just me and her in the house last night but i think her mum will be back now... what shall i do? I think i could play the card of... yeah i wanted to have sex with you on a second meeting or something?


Thanks for your help!
Much appreicated!

So she's leaving in a few days?

Just invite her to your place, watch a movie and go kino, escalate and try to kiss her.

You really have nothing to lose imo.

If she refuses to kiss, just watch the movie and pretend it never happened.

I agree, since she is leaving you literally have nothing to lose.

I would call her up, and be direct with her. Be honest, and say that you are attracted to her. She will probably go along simply because its her last days there.

Ok, i dont have her new number, should i use facebook mail?

Go face to face if you can, it makes it harder for her to reject you. However, if she does it can get pretty awkward if you don't know what to do.

Have a game plan if you do go face to face, know what to say if she says no, and know what to say if she says yes.


I don't know much about facebook mail, but if she's not in the mood at that moment that she receives the mail, its easier for her to say no.

Either way, be sincere about what you really want, and you'll get the best result.

Sorry pal, you're in the friendzone already.
1. You spent the whole evening at her PLACE just to KISS her FOREHEAD - If the girl invites you over and spend the whole evening with you, you can be sure that the thought of her ahaving sex with you has run thru her mind countless time that night before you showed up at her doorsteps.
2. FOREHEAD KISS - it's AFC, if you're in a romantic situation then it's a good move, but you were ON THE BED, be more sexual aggressive and escalate!
3. You watched Bruno and you didn't escalate? - Despite I dont like that movie, it's a movie with a lot of sex topics to discuss and tease her with. YOU DID NOTHING.
4. Note for next time: If the girl is okay with TURNING OFF the LIGHT while watching movie ON HER BED with you. It's a GREEN signal ! If she doesn't want to have sex with you, by all mean she will want to keep the light on.

I might sound harsh but I just get frustrated because you missed a sure 100% F-closed.
Here is how you fix it:
-Show up at her place without any notice.
-Make excuse that you need to finish cooking something, and you're out of cooking oil or your stove is broken, any BS you can think off so that you're either end up at her place cooking her dinner or her at your place watching you're cooking dinner for her.
-Put on some music, and sit on the couch with her, dont turn on the TV or anything, sit there, TALK, eye contact, build SEXUAL TENSION, KINO KINO and KINO.
- Go for a kiss, then rip off her clothes !

No he's not. He's just being a pussy. Ahimsa, quit being a pussy and fuck her. It's that simple.

Fuck....

Also, we were talking about history ( both doing the exam) and talking about cold wars. I messaged her on facebook, got her number, then i texted her: 'i still dont know what a cold war is.' to start convo, she never replied.

That was my fucking chance last night ..when i see your post i feel like fucking killing myself.

Well i dont know if her moms gonna be in or something, we're only 15..

i really want to fuck her but i just dont know how to go about getting her back into bed - i cant use that oil excuse = I dont have my own house, her mum might be in... etc! :/

Don't worry, dude. shit happens. brush yourself up, and move on. learn from it! its not end of the world yet, we do have 2 more years yet (2012). just kidding!

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See, ya are what ya are in this world. That's either one of two things: Either you're somebody, or you ain't nobody.

I think your attitude is a bit limited, she is not your last chance. No girl is ever your last chance unless you have burned through every single girl on the planet.

If you believe that this is over, then move on. Think about what you did wrong and improve the next time so you don't do it again.

I can give you a little tip when it comes to messaging: Girls don't respond to boring messages, like homework etc. They respond to more playful messages. Here are somethings that I use that have worked.

Hey I just saw a cat the looked exactly like you, msg me back asap so I know a wizard didn't turn you into a cat

I'm going to rob a bank and jump off a cliff tomorrow, down to join me?

Someone is stealing your goat! msg me back asap

These conversation starters are fun, and there is a very good chance that they will respond back.

Anyway your only 15, there's still a lot to learn. Be patient, approach lots of girls, and you will do well. :)