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Ah yes the good old pretending to be gay opener that I know all too well and have used countless times. And often led to some positive outcomes but with a catch.
On the one hand it is great as you get into her comfort zone easily and can become a good friend and she gives you cuddles too because she thinks you are not a threat and can be just like a teddy bear. However, if she does that to you then you will have to take some deep breaths and try not to show that she is getting you excited. Otherwise you will have messed up big time.
Trouble is when I have done a gay-ish opener, I may not have explicitly said I wa sgay but I gave off some limp hand mannerisms that would register on anyone's gaydar. It can get kino too but maybe if you want to do some gay opner that leaves things ambiguous try using some gay-ish body language but DO NOT actually say anything about being gay/straight/bi or whatever yet. Just let her go into a sense of mystery and leave her to work it out. Then see how any future meet ups go.
question: if you tag yourself as being gay, and turn it around later and be straight... what do you do, if she calls you on it? (ie: "
i thought you said you were gay? lier!!")
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