I apologize if this has been covered before.

Has anyone ever noticed a female in a bar/club/saloon/steakhouse and watched her out of the corner of your eye, while still talking with friends, and seen in your peripheral vision her head constantly turn your way, and get a vibe that she's looking at you and checking you out? I say this because I got that with two HB8s last night at a redneck-ish bar. The first, dressed very un-redneck-ish, was talking with her friends the whole time, and I could see in my peripheral vision her head turning my way constantly. Now, she could have been checking out another guy, or watching the band that was playing. But the reason I ask, is I was constantly sneaking glances at her, and just had the feeling, without any hard evidence, that she was checking me out. When I walked to the complete opposite side of the bar to get quarter for pool, again using my peripheral vision, I noticed her looking my way. I didn't look directly at her, but past the side of her head. What really pushed me to post this, is that later on in the evening I was sitting talking with my friends, and felt this semi-hard bump on my back, and to my surprise, it was the HB8 sliding past behind me. It wasn't a slight bump, but it felt like one meant to get my attention. She didn't turn around or say sorry or anything. Now, I didn't look behind me to see if she was maneuvering around people that were behind me, and that is how she maybe accidentally brushed against me. But her friends following behind her didn't touch me at all. I was left to scratch my head, wondering why the only two girls I was checking out that night had bumped into me. The other girl I was checking out came up behind me, and crossed behind me from my left side to right, brushing up against me and it felt like it was an attention-getter, and started talking to my friend(female)on my immediate right. I was getting the same vibes from her, like she was checking me out, but I didn't have any hard evidence.

Am I making this up, and "fishing" for IOI's? Has anyone ever felt or experienced this before?

I was dressed in a blue shirt with white paint marks all over it, black jeans, and muddy shoes because I had been fishing all day and was on my way home when i got the call that my friends were at this place on my way home. Almost all the other guys were dressed like Bro's. I had gone there with the thought that I was dressed bad, and just to hang with friends, and to experiment what it would feel like if i was dressed terribly. I talked to lots of people, but I was always thinking there's no way any of the HB's would want to do anything more than talk a few minutes with me, because I didn't feel "presentable".

Dude..I know what you mean..
Actually Im reading this body-language book and it states that GIRLS have a larger peripheral vision that guys,.which means..IF a girl is talking to a guy (OR VICE VERSA), initiating the conversation and the questions , the girl is actually checking you out cause when she seems to be listening/talking , you might be thinking 'she's talking to me' but in reality her wider eye peripheral vision allows her to check on your image,clothing etc..

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Game is the EXPRESSION OF YOUR INNER STATE, conveyed by the rhythms you use to direct the energy of the interaction.

If you had any inkling that they were scopin you out, you shoulda def just moved in. People doesn't seem to trust their intuition and instincts as much as they should, usually if you get a "feeling" that shes looking at your or vibin' you, she probably is. and if she isn't after you start talkin to her, win her over

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"whenever anyone tells you anything that isn't fun or great, they must be a stupid liar"- Styles

When you picked up that something was happening, to save time make eye contact, hold it, wait for her to look away, watch for the switchback, smile and approach. three minutes in total.

If you had any inkling that they were scopin you out, you shoulda def just moved in. People doesn't seem to trust their intuition and instincts as much as they should, usually if you get a "feeling" that shes looking at your or vibin' you, she probably is. and if she isn't after you start talkin to her, win her over

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"whenever anyone tells you anything that isn't fun or great, they must be a stupid liar"- Styles

always up for saving time

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I'm by no means a reliable source of information... yet

check.... and check.

*note* im taking ALOT of notes today.... i LOVE this

Wow. Ok, guys. Thanks for info. Any more on this is appreciated.

ya know, one thing here.... piece of advice when i did my intro...


dont apologize!! if its all a learning curve, beit here or out in the field.


good luck!