Constructing a working game strategy, or making the right move in this PU often comes down to a consideration of other peoples point of view. And consequentially most guys that are failing in PU, fail becuase they are oblivious to how other people percieve them.
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How should I open if I'm going direct while "she" is with friends?

How important are clean clothes?

Does having "value" matter?

Should I try calling one more time?

With a bit of thought about "her" experience of you, the answers to these kinds of questions should be quite obvious after a few seconds.

It is well worth building skills in thinking about other people and their possible perceptions of you, and how your actions influence them.

Excersises
1. In or out of set: Practise visualising and "turning the tables" on yourself when thinking about what your doing/ about to do.

2. Open up microsoft word and Write a PU story, from the point of view of the girl.

3. Trouble shoot when things go wrong by running through what happened from the perspective of the girl.

good post. I like doing this too.
Saves you from going overboard.

Especially true with C&F and kino. Some guys look more like robots who are filled with bunch of lines. That'd freak me out if I was a girl.