So yeah i'm kinda bored out of my mind right now.. and I had been thinking about this girl that i've met about 2 month ago. She's the type of girl who drinks alot and likes sex while I'm a quiet dude and a major AFC (trying to recover from it).

so yeah..We dated for about a month and a few weeks and she was alot interested in me, I was holding myself from being too needy or acting too interested(abit too much probably).

after that month and half, She was ignoring my calls(total of 2) for a week and then she finaly told me on msn that I wasnt affectionate enough for her and not "hyper" enough when I was with her but that she started to miss me.

So I told her that we didn't know each other enough yet and i'd show more affection with time and then asked her out again (i had nothing to lose), and she actualy agreed but said she couldnt do anything this weekend. So during the next week i called and she ignored again! then I txt'd her and asked her out on sunday and replied with a quick "no going to X bar sry". So I took that like a "im not interested in you anymore" and I then decided to block/delete her from my msn and remove her from my facebook friend list.

story short after 1 week of that, i get a txt from her on a sat(which is last saturday) night around 10:30 PM that she wants to see me! and i replied "lol ok. but i can't tonight so itll have to be another day" and then I got no response/contact from her since then.


Should I call or text her? I have a feeling that she only wanted some piitb action that night. But should I just leave her alone and if shes interested shell call me... or should I make a move yet again? personnaly i don't mind not seeing her again considering our dates were a bit boring most of the time, we're basicly just physicly attracted to each other i'd say, but She's a good practice for my game and i could use some piitb action too.

cliffs(cuz i agree this is VERY long):

- met girl 2 month ago
- she drinks alot and loves sex. I'm an AFC and quiet dude
- Im being carefull not to be too needy
- she starts ignoring my calls, then out of sudden on msn tells me she misses me but our personnalities are too different and I don't show affection enough
- I say we dont know each other enough tahts why and I asked her out again she agrees but can't go on the specific day
- She ignores my call again, but replies at my txt saying a simple "no i can't sry"
- I then block/delete her from msn and facebook
- 1 week later i recieve txt saying she wants to see me, but i reply i can't that night cuz im with friends playiong poker lol she doesnt reply back n i dont hear from her since.
- now what would a PUA/alpha guy do in my situation?

I would call one more time but if she doesnt pick up just leave a message.

Remember be cocky funny what ever you do.

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Perception is Reality

Personally, I get the impression this isn't the type of girl you are looking for. I get the impression that you want more than booze and sex. If I'm right, then let her go. If not, then I'd say try once more and then let her go.

Thanks bros for you replies.. very much appreciated reps

hey I got an amazing reply on my other forum (bodybuildingdotcom) from a PUA

here it is: (if you guys find yourselves in similar situations, itdll be VERY helpful !)

"You did good early on by scaling back when she drifted off. But her texting you again and then not calling, after you said the it (the date) will be some other day, proves that she's just playing you.

She said at one point that she was going to a bar. That right there tells you that she has guys lined up. But since she already knows you, she just wants to see you beg. You played it so well by ignoring her, that she called again to find out why you're not chasing her. But enough is enough mang. Don't return any more calls now, because she's just wasting your time. You can't practice on a girl that is just playing mind games with you.

The biggest sign that a man is an AFC is when he can't let the girl go. You did nicely by leaving her alone for those weeks, so you're a great step above AFC -30-"