For those who didnt read my earlier post, lets get an over view. I walk in to a game store, I see a cute girl, 20 years old, asian, and a solid 7. I opened with the my friend keeps pictures of his ex, and his current girl found them and called me and blah, blah, blah. I have her attention, I do the cube test, talked about school, movies, and games. Throw a few jokes, she laughs.
This is how it ended:
Me: wow your maybe the coolest girl I know now. I need to get 2 things. Your number and to see if your free on friday cause I might be having a party.
Girl: No im working on firday and I cant give my number on the clock, I can come back at 9:3... no 10:30.
Me:Ok Ill try and back by then. Ill see you later
Girl: Laughs and ill see u soon.
I go back and miss her literally by 45 seconds. FUCK!
I got more info from the guy who was working with her, "She's working tomorrow, closing shift, o and shes single to."
I need help here. Any advice on how to follow this up, be cocky funny, alpha male. How should I show higher value, and neg lines. I can do this, just need a little help from you guys, and with your help I will have a number/date close on here tomorrow.

-be careful with complimenting her too much (you're the coolest girl I know)
-dont ask for numbers outright ... say like "so how could I reach you"
-I would not go back the very next day. Go back the day after next.

Don't rush into it. Keep on the low for a few days. Otherwise you might look needy.

When you go back to the shop, talk to her like nothing happend. If you left a good impression of youself she'll start talking about the earlier meeting.

Then continue the conversation were you left off, don't ask her number directly. Say something like: "I'm going out on saturday, here's my number. Let me know if you want to join. See you. Bye"

Then walk away like you don't care about her reaction. This makes you quite different from other guys she spoke to, and you control the frame. Make sure that you don't sound cocky to her.

If you played your game well, she'll call.


Greetz
shorteez

This may sound harsh, but I'm gonna be honest.
"coolest girl I know". AFC=you blew that one. complimented when it wasn't warranted.
"I need 2 things . . . "=AFC=you blew that one. being needy.
"I'm working Friday"=I'm busy, hint hint.
"can't give my number out on the clock"=BS . . . she didn't want to, period.
"come back at 9:30, no 10:30"=at 9:30 she won't be gone. At 10:30 she should be able to be out of there. She doesn't want to see you.
"laughs"=haha, sucker/AFC you won't see me.
You missed her by 45 seconds and I promise you she was rushing to leave before you got there. She's thinking "phew". She's probably already bitched that guy out for giving you her info.

MOVE ON.

that sounds about right

but if you want to try anyways, go for it

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none taken guys, beat me down so i know what to tweak what I have to fix.

ive memorized some openers from an ebook. The thing is after opening and getting there response I dont know what to do next. Keep in mind my social skills are horrible. Any advice?
Heres something i did years ago when i was drunk i walked up to this girl outside a club and asked here about smoking if its relaxing (Keep in mind I wasnt dressed the way mystery says to).(She smoked) anyways then I said im not messing with you ill go away if you want. she said no. Then i went into about how i used to drink cause i was depressed then sought counseling and i felt better somewhat yadda yadda yadda. Anyways after that she invited me to follow her to dennys, sad to say I lost sight of her in the parking lot and i missed out big time. So anyways I need some help after delivering the openers and I know about stacking the openers as well, but whats next?

OH WOW. Can I leave it at that? LOL. Of course not. Well dude, obviously you do need some help, but you also need to start your own thread. Basically, learn MM better and practice, practice, practice. There is no substitute for practice when it comes to social skills. But, DON'T dump your counseling and depression and all of that dark stuff on someone. They will just run off, as it sounds like that girl did.

[quote="TheKing"]none taken guys, beat me down so i know what to tweak what I have to fix.[/quote]
you have the right attitude. look at it as a learning opportunity and youll be fine.

OH WOW. Can I leave it at that? LOL. Of course not. Well dude, obviously you do need some help, but you also need to start your own thread. Basically, learn MM better and practice, practice, practice. There is no substitute for practice when it comes to social skills. But, DON'T dump your counseling and depression and all of that dark stuff on someone. They will just run off, as it sounds like that girl did.[/quote]

I asked for specifics of what to talk about after I deliver the openers. if your gonna say practice well then practice what?

lol


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LOL, thanks Justin.

Brand does THIS help?
There is no substitute for practice when it comes to social skills. But,
Better?

By the way, MM means Mystery Method.

You re not answering my question. I just asked what to say next after the openers? Then I can PRACTICE that, hello? By the way the mm dvds and books cost a fortune not everyone on here has that kind of money.

By the way some of these girls online can reconize that these openers come from books. And after seeing the pua on vh1 you can bet they are checking websites like these and looking at the openers to stay one step ahead of us. Now people who are master PUA still will have no trouble cause they have the experience and knowledge to improve their game even more or make a few adjustments very easily.