Hey Guys, I'm finally going to put all the information I've crammed in to my head, to use with Styles 30 day challenge. For my own personal development and perhaps yours, I'm going to share my progress and experiences here throughout the challenge.

I am currently between day 3 and for of the challenge, meaning that I've done the third one today. So far It's been great, a lot of fun and refreshing. Going on Styles challenge gives an extraordinary sense of disciplin and purpose. This is the closest I've come to an actual bootcamp, which would be awesomely ideal.

As Chopper Sixx did in his "From AFC to PUA in 2 months? Let's start from the beginning" thread (which was the inspiration to this one) I'm going to give a heads up and a WARNING that Style suggests you don't read ahead on the challenges. So you don't spoil the experience...

Since I've already done 3 days worth of challenges I'm gonna briefly sum them up in three different posts so I don't spoil any challenges for you :p

So the main challenge for day one was to go out and interact verbally with five strangers. The other challenges was evaluating your self at your current point in life and destroying limiting and bad beliefs about your self and others. But I'm not gonna bother with them here I think, the juicy stuff is in the field :p

So I went out to the library wich was an awesome place to do this challenge. The only downside was that I couldn't really talk with a strong voice could I, so that was a little bit weird but still good since they are calm and in one place and ready to listen whitout any distractions.

I actually told my sets that I was doing a "social experiment and a mission" which recuired me to interact with five strangers. I think that was really a good strategy for me because I was able to be really interesting that way. Everybody who wasn't to shy asked me about it and wanted to know more and seemed genually interested. One milf HSB6 asked me what I studied since I was doing this but I just told her It was dor my personal development so I could be better at socialising with strangers. She thaught it seemed to be going good

This felt fairly easy but none the less empowering! I felt like a bit more superhuman than everyone else after that Like I was a step ahead of everyone in terms of socialising.

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I thought i should tell you that I'm not always going to do the challenges one day after the other. Some times I'm going to wait a day or to before taking on the next challenge. Partly because my day to day life demands it, and partly cause I think it's good not pressuring myself that I HAVE to do it in 30 days or else I'm a fail.

So day 2. Great day. The challenge is to interact with another five strangers, only this time remembering their eye color. The day started kind of funny when I was the only one in the bus a long with this really cute girl, HB7.5, which I immediatly said hi to with a very high confidence. I told her that I was doing a mission and that I was going to talk to five strangers today, she thought It was funny and smiled and all. Then I made a mistake by telling her "I'm also suposed to remember your eye color, which are blue!" cause she said eeh no they're brown-redish. And I was like really? and started staring which I could tell meda her uncomfortable. But anywho I counted it as a win

After that I went to the library once again and did even better than the day before. Since I live in Sweden they were like, all blue
I don't remember any particular interaction, I just remember I talked to old ladies and girls and men and boys. Everything was smooth with a ice tingling of nervousness before.

I loved this challenge.

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I forgot to link you to Chopper Sixx adventure with the challenge wich is really inspiring pleasant reading. Here it is: the http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com ... ge&start=0

Day threes challenge was not showering/shaving or any grooming at all. And also calling up random strangers in your town asking for tips for movies to see.

I waited two days before doing this challenge, really building up the musk on my body and by now (this is the night of the third day's challenge) feeling pretty disgusting.

The phonecalls went great. I did the "I'm doing a social challenge/mission/experiment bit again and, you might think it's cheating or something but I tell you, people really respond well to it. It feels like they're actually admiering me for being so brave and adventourus (I know my spelling sucks from time to time, I just don't have the energy getting everything right so just bare with me ok? )

I actually that I had to get 5 movie recomendations so that's what I got. I only called girls cause that seemed the nicest. Everyone responded really well and I actually ended up talking for over 5 mins with two of them. They were actually giving me IOIs over the phone So this challenge was great, plus I got one recomendation I'm actually following up (I'm a real movie buff, so that's a good result considering I'm really picky )

So that's the three days so far. I'm really tired right now and looking forward to tomorrow for the next challenge which I've already checked up. From now on I'll probably go in to more details since the memories will be fresher.

Can't wait to take a shower after three days or whatever.

Peace duderinos!

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Ok dudeskijs, day 4.
Todays challenge was to have a shower and really groom to the limit, then go out and ask girls for rekommendations of cool clothing stores with mens wear.

This challenge was definitely more demanding than the last two infield challenges. I live in a town with about 100k people, so I already know all the shops and had to pretend I was out of town. First I asked to girls HB5 and HB4 in a store and they responded well but it was still really akward. But it's true what they say about a warmup set, after that one I really felt more confident and determined of what to do.

I asked a young cute shy girl HB 6 and she was so shy it got akward by that also I wasn't really calm and comfortable in the situation so it wasn't ideal, but hey that's further on I guess.

I asked another cute young girl and this time I was walking and talking, walking past her and asking over the shoulder, this was a much better approach then the two first ones and it felt way more natural then just stopping someone in they're tracks. She did even lean in and that was nice. The exit was bad though cause I didn't plan where I was going next so I made like a U-turn even though the store was at the way we were heading

Still I liked the challenge and had a nice feeling of superiority afterwards

I really learned something about my self and girls today with this exercise. Styles tip was to approach girls that seemed to have a nice clothing style. And I really had a hard time finding girls that dressed cool in my eyes. None of the girls I talked to had very impressing style. So as I'm oogling girls all day long, longing for them, not many of them has been living up to my standards so to speak. And that realisation was empowering. I felt more strong. Off course I'm still going to game girls that doesn't have superduper cool style, but I now know more about my own standards in girls and that I'm not inferior to all semi cute looking girl out there...

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I thought I'd tell you a little more about my self and where I am regarding interacting with girls. I discovered this community many years ago. I stumbled across the Mystery method on DVD and was immediatly hooked. I had lightbulbs going off every tenth second. This was maybe 6 or seven years ago, since then I've taking in tons upon tons of material from several gurus.

Since my discovery of this art and the rules of the game I've actually been in limbo between natural interaction and trial and error with girls (pre discovery of the game) and altered, practiced interaction with gambits and routines and theory (post discovery). This has been extremely frustrating cause I've known the rules but haven't had a solid method to play with. So I've not done anything cause I know everything not to do.

I have a lot of things already going for me in terms of attractiveness. I'm pretty good looking, I have a nice physique, I am comfortable socializing with people in general and am often the center of attention. A problem is that I can easily tip over into being the clown.

So i think my main sticking points is going more intimate and making moves. Taking it from friendly to potentially sexual is somtehing I'm to prude(best word I could come up with) to make the transition or something...

I think I might also have a problem in taking the hole alpha thing too damn far, thinking that everyone is trying to amog me and shit test me all the time... Am getting better though...

Other than that I am 25 years old and live in northern Sweden (lots of blonds) and is going to study journalism this fall. I am athletic, have competed in alpine skiing 'til I was 20 years old. I don't know what else to write so I'l just start briefing you on day 5.

Oh, feel free to comment and give advice on my experiences. I would greatly appreciate it!!

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Challenges of the day: Grooming and getting a style consultation and a new outfit from som clothing store.

This day's challenge was not very new to me. I've acctually just recently changed my haircut, gotten advice with clothing style and shoes from a trendy girlfriend of mine. And invest a lot of energy on grooming and staying healthy. All of these things are points where Style thought one should do.

I currently don't go to the gym cause I can't afford it, but as soon as I can I will. I did go to a tanning salon and got a bit of a tan which is always nice as hell! Makes you look more healthy, this is a great advice to you, get a tan!

I chatted up some young (too young) girls at the bus cause I heard they were dutch. I got really good responses and good body language from people in the close proximity by being socially skillful. It was a really nice start to the day.

Today I realised that the two cutest girls where I work, are attracted to me in some levels. One of them gave me a "lovesniff" where she smelled my neck and said it smelled nice and stroked my back. Didn't know how to respond to that And earlier she and a guy was saying I was so good looking today, and wondered why I was so goodlooking today. I said that "it was just the natural order of things"!
I said it jokingly though, couldn't be cocky while I was given such a direct compliment could I??

That's pretty much my day. It feels as I'm getting more attractive just applying this concrete change in my life and changing my attitude along the way!
I'm looking forward to tomorrows challenge!

Peace

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Good shit brother! ILL KEEP READIN!!!!

Awesome Zachpwnsu!

Challenges of the day: Giving compliments to 4 girls, two of them could be girls I know.

This happened yesterday, I was to tired to post about it at that time though.Yet again I headed to the library. My work begins at 4 pm so I always go in to town like an hour and a half before work to do my challenges. I spent some time actually looking for good looking girls (I find that I step up my game with more good looking girls, probably cause my subconscious doesn't want to game less beautiful girls) but I couldn't find any...

I saw a girl from behind with shoes I thought were cool so as I walked past her I just said "Your shoes are cool." upon wich I met her eyes and noticed that I really made her day. She was probably an HB4.5 so not someone I would date, but it was nice making someone happy. After this I was determinded to acctually find someone that was goodlooking but alas I wasn't succesful in doing so. After a while of looking I felt an urgancy to finish half of the challenge before work (the other half is 2 girls at work which I was giving the last 2 compliments to) so I picked a girl who was sitting at a computer. This girl was probably an HB5.5 and before talking to her I examined her, trying to find something to complement her on but it was hard! I finally went with
me -hey
HB 5.5 -yes hello
me -you have pretty nice hair
as I said this I realised that she did'nt have nice hair at all, so it was weird overall

At work I gave one of the cutest girls at work a compliment on her style. It didn't really seemed to do anything, she just started talking about a dresscode conversation she had with another coworker. Then at the end of the day I told the other cute girl (these are the same girls that I just recently realised were somewhat attracted to me) that her shoes were nice. This time I also did'n really mean it, I just wanted to compliment her on anything since I thought she'd given me IOI's earlier. After this she actually mention a boyfriend f
or the first time so she must really have thought I was hitting on her, which I probably was

This day I learned that I should navigate towards actions which are congruent to me. Give myself more time and game on girls I want to game on and say things I think are true, to some degree at least...

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Challenges of the day: Using a canned opener to open 3 girls.

I just erased my whole post so this one will be far more compressed. Asswipe!!!!!

Long story short I was at a store and opened an HB5.5 with the Oceans of the world opener which is interesting to me since I don't know all the oceans. It wen't wel but didn't go anywhere further so I just rolled off. The second set I opened was far worse ending up really akward. She was standing in a corner and I came in way to direct and without conveying any other purpose than chatting her up. She wasn't that hooked by the opener and continued looking at clothes halfway in on the opener. I ejected akwardly.

After a shitty day at work I saw this cute girl HB 7.5 waiting alone, for the same bus as me. My friend from work showed up and we started talking 2 meters next to her. At one point I just turned to her and said with a loud voice whitout moving towards her: "You look like you're good at geography" She moved in pretty close on me while she said "Do I? But I'm not" She was smiling widely and we had great Eye contact.

She didn't know how many continents there were and not even the name of any ocean(!) so I teased her a little about it and then told her to look the oceans up 'til the next time we meet. While she followed me in the bus I told her about my mission to cal random people and ask for movie recommendations which she was impressed buy.

She sat close to us but we didn't talk on the way. On the way out I said goodbye to my friend and then told her remember the oceans next time while giving her light kino on the arm. At the same time as I spoke she said "good luck with the oceans" so I could really tell she had been thinking of things tu say to whole way there!

This was awesome and it really made my night. If my colleague hadn't been there I probably would have taken it further, probably going for a number close!

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I just number closed! Boyaa!! I'll tell you all about it later... I'm off to dinner now.

Peace!

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Challenges: Open three sets with canned opener, only this time with time constraints and rooting the question.

It's been a busy weekend, so no posting...

On friday I got a numberclose. I got off work at 8 pm, later that night I was having dinner with an exgirlfriend (who I never slept with) and was feeling good. I wanted a good social vibe going when I met her so I opened up maybe three girls waiting for the bus (in different places). The first two were kind of stale and going nowhere. The third girl HB 7 I approached got really excited over being approached in that time of the day.

These are the girls I like! The ones getting excited of being approached in day time. I can understand girls being restrictive in night time and in the club. I can really really understand that. But in the daytime it's different, normally people in Sweden don't strike up conversations with strangers. Personally I love it when something different like that happens!

Anywho, the opener about the oceans worked really well and the conversation was very good with lots of smiles and energy. We ended up sitting face to face with each other in the bus which wasn't ideal cause it was to intense. Still I did really good cause everyone in the bus could hear, but I didn't think about it. It turns out we live very close to each other so we walk together after the bus. At this time she has been touching me a lot, hitting me for teasing her and stuff

When my house came up I told her that I was going home, she seemed disappointed that it was over. I took out my phone and told her to put her number in and I'll text her sometime. She did but it was as I was expecting a little bit weird for me that move. She gave me the phone and I asked her what to name her in my phonebook, "crazy beret girl" she was wearing one and being kind of artsy
She reach to shake my hand and introduced her self properly.

Oh yeah when she was typing her number she said "I'll put the wrong number in" which put me off a bit but it was probably just her being unsure as to how to act in that unusual situation.

I stayed for a bit to smalltalk so it wouldn't seem as though I was just getting her number and leaving. But I stayed tooo long cause she said she was getting cold and was going home now.

I checked the number and it was the right one, and also she was a bit young, 18... I'm 25. But that's ok... Other than this I haven't been gaming this weekend, but today I hope I have time to do the next challenge.

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Good stuff bro, keep going.

Thanks alezopeda! It feels great to know someone is cheering me on. Gives me a greater sense of purpose!

I've been a bit off balance and routine lately so I've been using that as an excuse not to go for the challenge of day 9. The truth is, this challenge is way more of an obstacle for me then almost all the previous challenges combined. I can sometimes be frightened by crowds, especially when something gets weird. Then I immediately feel their eyes upon me.

I've not been too sure about my oceans opener, or rather the way I deliver it. I've given it some thought and have now modified it so it suits me for using on mixed sets. I'm just going to say: "Hey, I really need your guys help with something, were trying to figure out the names of the five world oceans. Can you tell me the ones you know?" "Ok, see we only get to four, there's some mysterious ocean out there, taunting us!"

I don't have anything stacked on that so I'm just going to roll of when I'm done, unless something special happens. I'll be really satisfied with just that, knowing I've overcome a big obstacle for me.

Another thing I've noticed is that when I'm out sarging I often give up approaches thinking that they're not good enough for some reason. Often it's me thinking they're not good looking enough, or that they look too busy or something. From now on I'm going to work on approaching immediately, not analysing the situation too much. I think this will give me a great advantage in form of momentum after 2 or 3 approaches.

Will report back tomorrow!

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Challenges of the day:

Approach two mixed sets with three people or more.
Don't give up

I can see why the challenge "don't give up" was given here, on the ninth day. I was really tense today, battling with approach anxiety. If not for this forum, and the fact that I promised to report back today, I'd probably pushed this challenge to another day.

As I said, I was tense. I was walking in my town around 2 pm building the challenge up in my head. I decided to do some warm up sets before taling on the challenge. I decided to go with the "hey I'm doing a social challenge, today I'm supposed to talk to five strangers and your the first one" or whatever. This was a really good idea, my stiffness totally released. I did maybe four warm up sets with various results. I was now ready for the challenge.

Something I noticed is that it was really hard to find mixes three sets in my city at that time a day. I finally opened three sets (thinking I was supposed to do three) ALL of them were kids, maybe 15-16 years old. They were the only ones travelling in groups by the day apparently LOL.

The first approach was akward off course. They were wondering what the hell was up, basicly. Then I realised something, I was doing the oceans opener and hadn't been putting any energy or ENTHUSIASM in to it! After that I was asking and really wondering weather or not they could give me the answer. This really helped. I think I might even have gotten the answer finally =).

I did root my openers but didn't do time constraints on the last two. But my body language was definitely saying that I wasn't going to stick around after my question.

I am happy with my results. I did open my mixed sets which I was terrified of. Even though they were young, it still feels really good. I'm going too need a new opener soon. I'm thinking of going in very direct with a compliment believe it or not. I think I can pull it off. I am probably much more qualified than I think... Also, I live in a friggin student town! I'm heading up to campus one of these days to do some damage

I'm going to a wedding on Saturday!!! It's going to be awesome! I'm going to do some gaming there, I'll report back hehe. Day 10 might have to wait 'til after the weekend.

Peace dudes

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