hey guys,

so i posted a couple of weeks ago [dissection-did-i-fuck-up-how-bad-can-i- ... 83950.html] about this girl who i met and really liked and got her number after she was the opening act at a show my friend was performing at. we went to hang out once and i sort of overkilled and so i didn't call her for a week to see if she would contact me and it worked as she texted me after a week. we've texted a few times since then, always positive stuff. i've been trying to keep those brief to signify disinterest because i really did overkill the first time and this is probably the best way to fix it by showing her, i dont care, i.e. i have another life, im not interested.

so she is playing another show later tonight and she texts me yesterday saying hey! i have a show tomorrow night at wherever if you're interested. i responded saying i hope you saved me a backstage pass and she replied "Of Course!!!

i have 2 questions. First, am i right to assume that her always initiating texts with me are strong IOIs? Thats what I am interpreting them to be. All things considered we had a great time that one night and I just layed off because I showed too much interest. Now if she is texting me and inviting me to a show thats gotta mean she's been thinking about me and clearly wants me to come. Am I on base with that?

Second, after the show when we are hanging out, (either in group or alone) how can I find out if she likes me as a friend, or is it in a professional capacity or is it something more? I don't want to make a hasty move and look like an idiot if she is really set on me being just a friend for now (although i hope not and i get the "something more than a friend vibe" from the texting)

Thanks Bros,
R

hey guy,

so first of all, everytime she's reinitiating the contact, and she's the one, that invited you to this event, so just like you thought, that are IOI's. Also her response to your question about that backstage-pass.

So go for this one, and it'll be on.

Second of all, to know, if she's into you, more than a friend you have to look for her body language for instance.
Is she doing kino ? Like touching you, when you both are laughing, or uses other excuses to touch you, or maybe touching you without any reason for it, like tapping your shoulder as a sign of agreement.
Next is she laughing even about your bad jokes ? Is she qualifying, like trying to tell you all her good sides, even if she hides it in storys.
And another thing I learned trough studying the human body language and psychologie. Look for signs like, the rising of her pupills when she sees you, the color of her face when she's with you, is she making eye contact, playing with her hair. Look (not too obvious) for the postion of her feets, are they turned in you direction ? or is she tapping, can mean shes excited.
And a thing that is always a great indicator for me, her breathing. You can read it from her shoulder movement.
And last you could touch her pulse to escalate and also to look for its speed.

Just take her hand, touch for the pulse. "and say: Oh I know it, you're into me" or "Got you, but now stay calm;)" or anything else

First off thanks for the feedback on my last reply. I'm extremely happy to hear that it helped.

So I think you are right on with taking that as IOI. She is interested. So to answer the 1st question I think it is safe (and advisable!!!) to assume she is interested. This actually answers the 2nd question as well.
Moving forward.
Read the post on THE CLAW and use it liberally. Escalate kino and move with rapidly with confidence to continue the process of smashing the earlier DLV. I snagged this line of this forum somewhere and If you could do me a favor use t and let me know how it went. Just before Kclosing say "This is the part where you close your eyes." I think that shit is pimp, but I haven't been able to kclose between reading it and now.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

wow the claw is freaking crazy!! come to think of it, i've also done it many times before without even knowing it and its worked almost every single time. i hate that i cant do it on girls taller than me.

anyway, i'm goin for it. its on. is there a good post somewhere on some simple kino and kino escalation. honestly, thats not my strong suit and if i could read up and maybe pick up a couple of things to use tonight, along with the claw, it would be dope...

thanks,
R

Lots of stuff on here just search around.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

I think she is attracted to you , by the way you tell us in your post.

Go at the show and see how she reacts. If she seems attracted to you , ask her out and see how it goes.

Tell us how it goes,

All the best ,

Tony

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"This is th epart, where yuo close your eyes".... thats tight!!! imma use it next time i Kcolse.


*note: i havent kclosed in YEARS, so dont wait for me to tell you about it.* lol

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okay, i read the backstory and caught myself up to speed. firstly, seems like Mr.MAN isnt all that strong in her life, so maybe go with the flow. sounds like theres alot of IOI going on, so work it, play with it and see where it leads... but be sure to keep us informed (i think theres a specific place for that, what is it? lay reports? field reports etc?)

secondly i dont know why you posted the links twice, maybe i missed something.

thirdly, is there any news on HB9???


@jitz: query= "the claw" ???

The claw is the single most powerful tool I have gained in pickup. It is pretty much the shit. I used it tonight when some guy started talking at my target. I just "clawed" her and spoke to him. I think everyone was a little shocked at how well it worked. kclose #close , power of the claw, baby. Find the post because it rocks. It was either minsok or blondguy can't remember which.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

okay jedi master jits:

i did the search, looked around... but i cant find the thread you are talking about. my search-fu is not strong.

could you post a link possibly?

power-of-the-claw-vt61389.html?highlight=claw

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

okay read it and know what the claw is now. and i can hear you guys cringe when i say, in all honesty.


i have NEVER used "the claw" maybe during photo-ops with friends, but other then that? nope!

I can attest that the CLAW is definitely the shit. It works and it works well. I did it to her twice and both times, she turned into me and I could feel that she wanted to be there. Great technique.

If I want to destroy the BF what do I do. Like I mentioned in my other post viewtopic.php?p=437270#437270 I don't necessarily believe in being a dick and stealing girls away from guys, but I have a good opportunity, she does like me, and unless I practice it, I will never get good. Is the tradeoff worth it? Being less than moral in order to learn?

Thoughts?

R