Yeah, it doesn't matter what her intentions were as much as you'd think. Don't overthink it, just spark up the convo after she opens.

And I can't see what your EC problem is. I took notice today to see what I did to have them look at me, but I couldn't put my finger on it. They just look, and I look back and it happens.

Try walking with your head up more. Not so much as looking at the ceiling, but even with the horizon and not with your chin down your shirt. Most floors are even, you don't need to worry about tripping.

Try wearing a baseball cap, but have it on the back of your head facing upwards. This gives the appearance of you having your head up, even if it is not.

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lol honestly i really didnt even know how to get where she was tryina get to but yeh... im going to just try to make more eye contact and see if i can get it to work..

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Yeah keep trying a repost tomorrow what happens.... its not going to get you girls but I think its important for your confidence....

and try different things from turning your head a lot and keeping eye contact to keeping your head straight and just moving you eyes. Find what works for you!

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OK guys so today i put my eye contact to the test again i walked around chest out chin up lookin very confident inmyself. I must say i did notice maybe 3 girls looked out of the whole day and one actually talked to me sadlly she was not even classified as a HB she was the kind you dont wanna talk to you know? so yeh i noticed what you guys mean look confident youll get the looks ok so now that igot the eye contact down now i just needa gather enough balls to forget about this approach anxiety i mean if the girl comes to me i can talk but me goin to then is a problem :-\ but ill get over it

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good work. have the mentallity that everyone is looking at you and wants to be you.

best way is to get a friend and go to a club and approach at least two sets. Then everything will make sense to you. You understand that you can approach anyone and they arent going to think you are a weirdo for it.

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yehh.. i gotta make this happen next step maybe a number close lol

K guys apparently im a fat chick magnet or something.. today i was doin my thing makin eye contact then i was waiting outside the door of my class for the teacher to come and im just standing up right with the correct posture lookin around at people and then i feel someones lookin at me i turn around i find this fat chick staring at me then she smiles i give a quick smile and turn away in fear wtf:-\ how come hotties dont do that lol

Ahaha. You just got mad skills with the fatties. Its because fatties dont have guys coming up to them so they have to do it themselves.

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so im not the only one with this problem?

My friend has the same problem. But knowing you presences attracts someone is a good thing.

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yeh i guess thats true... i was thinkin like for practice i can like neg at girls i already talk to and get some talking practice what do you guys think i was trying it out today during english since we dont do much anyway i was talkin to the girl next to be i had her giggling all class so i guess im doing SOMETHING right lol

the reason that you can talk to ugly women is because you dont want/need anything from a random hb4 so you can say/do whatever you want without feeling like every move you make is either helping or hurting you its just w/e,

but when your talking to a hb9 you CARE too much. with a hottie you care too much about what she thinks about you and that makes you nervous.

david deangelo made a nice little scale, on one side was you need a woman for some reason or another, on the other side was you dont need her at all. david said that the closer you can get to "i dont need you for anything at all" the better.